She uses me, takes advantage of me & even cheated on me. Why do I still love her with all my heart?
2006-06-21 08:39:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is something within her that you truly see as redeeming qualities and for whatever reason, she doesn't seem to have the same respect for you that you do for her.
If you aren't in a situation where leaving will strip you of everything you own (divorce), consider giving things a break and moving towards other women for a bit...someone else might prove to you that you aren't deserving of the treatment this lady gives you and you might come to really prefer being separated from her.
The first step in all this is the one you've just admitted to...you see the problem but you are letting your heart rule your head. It want's her your head knows it shouldn't...do what is best for the whole you because obviously if the shoe were on the other foot she'd probably be gone in 60 seconds :)
Take care and I hope this works through successfully for you...allow yourself to be truly happy even if that means breaking free of something you love. Remember the saying if you love it set it free, if it comes back to you it's yours, if not, it never was.
Good luck
2006-06-21 08:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are in deeply and madly love with her.
you place her at the highest level in your life,
you think without her your life is over,
you may not find any other girl like her,
you will be in deep pain if you leave her and find her hanging around your area or around your friends or known people.
even if you leave her for while,
you would be back around her because you are weak or would make you weak when you come across her on some street some place around you hang.
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: The Prophet said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you
2006-06-21 08:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by saleem k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some reason alot of men want a woman to treat them like garbage..I can't answer that for you...the only think I can say is maybe you don't think you can get better, or that you don't deserve better...but it's silly to stay with someone who won't respect you.
2006-06-21 08:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Syeira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must be kinda power hungry, sorry man, but to her you are a boy and she will treat you like it. you are convenient to her and unfortunately for you, that's why she keeps you around. Its because you are her doormat
2006-06-21 11:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a fool. There are plenty of fish in the sea...
2006-06-21 09:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by hullo? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your willing to accept her behaviour when you could be doing better, leave her ***. you'll be happier in the long run.
2006-06-21 08:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are stupid that is why, be a man for a change and find a girl that is worth your time, mind, body, and soul pal
2006-06-21 08:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be because you are one of the few worthy guys out there
2006-06-21 12:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you like her to treat you like crap. Why not evaluate your life and wake up?
2006-06-21 08:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she treats you this way because and plz dont get me wrong cuz i dont knw you but you let her get away with it .
2006-06-21 08:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋