And vice versus for women how in the hell do we know what a real woman is. For all we know a real woman is the lady you never see at work or in the field she is to busy nuturing her family and keeping her husbands affairs in order.
2006-06-21 08:28:40 · 13 answers · asked by St Guido 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Your last point defines a real woman.
2006-06-21 08:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A real man when said by a woman is someone that can hold a job, support himself, be clean, and learn how to love a woman. For every one woman I believe she has her own opinions of what a real man should be or is. Same for men, If Im a bum chick not doing anything with my life, hanging in the streets at the age of 23, I would not consider myself a real woman. If I was dedicated to all I do and held myself down, I would consider myself a real woman and that would go for the man I see as a real man. Some people just come out there face and want to dog someone.. so it might be used as a figure of speach... if it was said to you.. dont take it personal unless you aint a real man.
2006-06-21 15:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Star* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
VERY GOOD QUESTION..
I think there can't be a generalized answer.. it's in the eye of the beholder. What makes a good man to me- might not be what that 'good man' defines himself as..
(maybe that didn't make much sense..)
But u are right.. how can we define the other sex without being them.
To some guys a 'REAL WOMAN' is stacked, 120 lbs and a freak..
to some it's a nice woman in church who takes care of the homefires..
It's in the eye of the beholder.
2006-06-21 15:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by Glitter Pimpstress (G.P.) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The phrase "real man" and/or "real woman" is an expression of someones opinion. When someone says something like that they are really expressing their ideal. For example, a real man to me is someone who can be manly while also being in touch with his feminine side. Someone who as goals and provides for those he cares about. My definition is most likely different from another woman's definition
2006-06-21 15:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by yogosafire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is so simple, even you should have figured it out. To a woman, a real man is one who is up to her ideals, whatever her ideals are.
A real woman is the one that comes closest to what you would like your woman to be,
There is no REAL MAN as such to all women. What one considers the ideal, another would give thumbs down to.
2006-06-21 15:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psychologically/sociologically speaking, our parents play an important part in shaping our expectations of the opposite sex. I say that as we get older, peers, the media, as well as the imaginings of our own wants and desires from them all play some part in crafting our image of what a "real man" or "real woman" is supposed to be like.
2006-06-21 15:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by jermaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experience
2006-06-21 15:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by Wowpra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess it would be the person's own idea of what a real man or woman is or should be.
2006-06-21 15:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by soxfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To them its what they are looking for in a man or woman:like his/her personality,the way he/her acts,his/her good/bad habits,his/her looks,are they compatible with,does he/her have a good job,is he/her responsible,is he/her into open relationships,is he/her a big flirt,and his or she faithful in a relationship.Basically its the man/woman of their dreams.
2006-06-21 15:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by JF. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, it's a woman thing, women are just better judges of character and who ppl really are.
2006-06-21 15:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋