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my girlfriend and i were making out then suddenly were just did it...i felt so bad i was scared she was going to get pregnant then she told me its going to be okay she wont get pregnant because she dont have her period. so another night she felt horney i said i dont want to do it but she be mad at me so i did it. and i didnt want her get pregnant so i did the pull out method but its not method i thought it can reduce the sperm into her body. then we did like four times. then like 5 days later she had her period is that a bad thing or good thing. im sitting her crying begging praying that she wont be pregnant please give me help im not ready to be dad. i still love her anyway but i dotn want to ruin her life i dont want her get pregnant im wishing and praying. and im shaking alot. please help me all.
2006-06-21 08:06:48 · 16 answers · asked by INEEDHELP 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you don't want to get her pregnant you shouldn't be having sex with her, or at the very least you should be using reliable birth control (and the pull out method isn't it, kid.) You need to start using the pill or the shot and a condom every time. It only takes once to conceive a child.
As for her being pregnant, if she's having her period it's highly unlikely, but not completely impossible. If you're really worried, a couple of weeks after her period have her take a pregnancy test.
It sounds like you both really need to grow up a bit, and I say that truly in the nicest possible way. You're in a situation you're having trouble dealing with. Before you have sex again, you need to have a serious talk with each other (and bring up her coercing you into having sex, for the love of Pete). You also need to go to the library and do some research on birth control, sexual relations and the human anatomy. Learning and communication are very vital keys to human sexual interaction.
2006-06-21 08:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she had her period, then the likelihood is that she is not pregnant from the times you guys had sex before that. (Not impossible, but not likely.)
The next thing you need to do is to sit down and have a conversation with her about the subject at a time when you are both thinking clearly. Hormones really screw with judgement. Tell her your concerns, and ask her about hers. If neither of you are prepared to handle the possibility of a pregnancy, then you either have to stop having sex altogether, or at least get yourself some birth control, and learn to use it properly. If she's not willing to go along with that, then I suggest you get out of this relationship, as its destructive potential is enormous.
2006-06-21 08:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by Robin J. Sky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, i think you are playing with fire! I don't understand that "she don't have her period"? Is she saying she has never had a period or she stops from having a period altogether? You can get a girl pregnant with a condom on. All it takes one drop of semen. It doesn't matter if you pull out, she can get pregnant with premature ejaculation.
Don't fall for this trick, if you get her pregnant, life will be hell. Simply because you don't want her to and she seems to be the force-full type. Also, it seems that you guys may be too young to have sex, so don't feel pressure to do it.
There is a phrase: "One minute of pleasure, can lead to a lifetime of headaches." Follow your conscience and don't have sex with this girl, if she gets pregnant, you are going to hate yourself that you made a mistake. LISTEN TO YOUR CONSCIENCE!
2006-06-21 08:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by osubuckeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, before you engage in sex or anything for that matter, you should try and educate yourself first more! Pull out doesn't work, if she got her period after that, chances are she's not pregnant, but it's no guarantee. Don't ever let anyone influence you into doing something you don't think you should!!!!!
And don't panic about the situation, things will work out, no matter what.
2006-06-21 08:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready to be a dad, either STOP HAVING SEX or start exercising some common sense and use protection. You're saying she wanted to have sex and you didn't...don't put this on her. I'm quite sure she didn't hold a gun to your head and force you to have sex with her. Be a man and the next time this happens, either tell her NO, or tell her you will if she can provide a condom.
2006-06-21 08:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she had her period she is not pregnant. Get some condoms if you are going to have sex.
And if you are not ready to be a Dad, don't have sex! Nothing works 100% of the time.
2006-06-21 08:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got REALLY lucky this time, but you and your girlfriend are on a dangerous road.
Take your sweetheart for a date to Planned Parenthood. You will learn how NOT to get pregnant and NOT get sexually transmitted diseases. This is a loving thing to do for each other.
Having unprotected sex is like playing with fire... you WILL get burned eventually.
You are a really smart young man and I'm proud of you for being responsible.
2006-06-21 08:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by xawboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she had her period since having sex, she is probably not pregnant. Use more caution next time. There are spermacides, condoms and much more effective things than pull-out method
2006-06-21 08:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by JLT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are so obviously too young for sex! Please, you've been lucky so far. Get protection before the next encounter or you will for sure end up pregnant and all the prayers in the world would be UNABLE to help you then.
2006-06-21 08:12:40 · answer #9 · answered by angieasee64 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do a pregnancy test to make sure she is not pregnant, because you were definitely not having safe sex. Next at least use a condom or spermacide
2006-06-21 08:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋