well im going to austin and am going to have sex with my bf over there and im scared because i dont know if it hurt and would it feel akward gettin naked n stuff around him and he wants to go all the way n so do i but im scared and nervous but at the same time excited and happy but helpme out n i need advice!!! but i want to do it with him!!!
2006-06-21 07:34:40 · 22 answers · asked by nichole 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I wouldn't worry about the first answer, as long as you know everyone he's slept with and he don't have any diseases, then you'll be fine, use a condom, and be careful about it...Besides, if you're going to Austin to see your boyfriend...you can't be very young, unless your parents just don't care.
2006-06-21 07:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
1. it may hurt; a little or even worse...
2. don't feel awkward, it's natural.
3 my advice is not to "do it", because just by asking this question you have shown us you're not ready yet and more, you're not at all prepared to!
4. you can still "do it" with him, BUT when the right time comes. It seems it is not, yet.
Listen also to the others who have mentioned STDs and unwanted pregancy. Anohter unwanted secondary effect would be that if he "mishandles" you, you could end with a nice frigidity which will take some time to treat... (not sure if for a definitive cure).
So, don't listen to your rushing hormones, try to listen to reason.
Don't blame us if you fail...
2006-06-21 19:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by DragosMD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to like this answer, but if you have to ask then you are too young. Being with a man for the first time is something you can only do once. You don't have to wait until marriage, but you need to remember that what you have, men will always want. Just be careful who you give it to. Good luck.
2006-06-21 08:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by kjp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that you are old enough and mature enough. Some people get in too big of a rush. 1st I think you should love the person. You don't want your first time to be remembered as someone you didn't really care for. 2nd use protection you don't want to get pregnant or any STD's 3rd just be yourself and express your feelings to him to be patient with you It will hurt a little and may bleed a little but it will make you too closer and over time it will not hurt anymore
2006-06-21 07:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by noseygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be scared. How old r u? Sex will hurt a little but it feels good. just be happy u get to see ur bf. Where do u live and how often do you see him? Good luck and hope u have fun. Enjoy the time u get to spend with him.
2006-06-21 07:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by monkeygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all, you are on Teen and Preteen, that means you are TOO YOUNG. of course no one wants to do it with you. What will your parents think? you're trust with them wil be blown forvever, and they can kick you out of the house, I'm serious, Trust takes years to build, but seconds to chatter. If you blew their trust before, and were working so hard to earn it back, years, maybe, you'll blow it in a couple of seconds when you make this mistake of your life. Wait till you're married, cuz its not worth it. Deseases, STDs, AIDS, and more can occur. You're never safe, not even with a condom. Believe Me, take the risk when you are actually ready to be a mother, and out of school, and married also. If you're friends pressure you to do this, and say, you wont be cool, they're not real friends, they just want you to ruin your life, before they do. Don't fall under peer pressure, dont let them put you down when you don't have to be put down. Make the right desision. Bring a child into the world when you are ready and married. Please listen to me and don't have sex. PLEASE!
2006-06-21 08:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by la. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah depends but mostly the first time always hurts and sometimes u bleed and if u feel like yure not ready dont do it but if you do go ahead and dont be nervous because sex is all about enjoying yourself and having fun relax
2006-06-21 07:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by T_claire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just take things slow,and mabey leave your top on so u feel more comfortable,but if for some reason u change your mind,just don't do it!tell him how u feel mabey he'll comfort u.try if u get naked do that in the dark under the blankets.I saw that on a movie,I don't really have experience so..good luck hope I helped
2006-06-21 09:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it easy at first when u get there, then whenever he is ready just go with the flow. Trust me, U will know what to do when the time comes,but other than that just sit back and relax or else he will know by the intimacy between both of you that something is wrong.
2006-06-22 03:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by riddick_torque01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you realy do well go ahead. but you should think if he is the right one. and it will hurt but not a lot. the frist time sux but the second it gets better. for a frist timer bigger is not better. your going to have to put a tapon on after though so you won't get your clothes stained. and it will feel wierd naked in front of him so try just under clothes for now. good luck gurl!!!!! xoxoxoxo
2006-06-21 07:46:02 · answer #10 · answered by rae rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not what you need to be worried about. You need to be concerned with STD's and pregnancy. If you think it would feel weird to get undressed with him then you guys arent close enough to have sex anyways. just have fun at austin.
2006-06-21 07:40:06 · answer #11 · answered by nurseaidgirl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋