Im 11 years old and i have a boyfriend and he wants to "do it" but i dont really want to.. so if i get with him in a bed and i dont take my pants off... if i leave my PANTS ON what couldhappend?? if i leave my pants ON and he doesnt what could happend to me?? if i have my pants on and he doenst have his pants on what could happend?? if i sleep with my boyfriend and he wants to "do it" and i leave my pants on what could happend to me??
2006-06-21 07:24:00 · 22 answers · asked by nastylazy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you are 11 you shouldn't be having sex. Period. If you don't want to have sex you shouldn't be having sex either. Whoever would even TRY to have sex with an 11 year old is wrong. Kepp your pants on, and stay vertical. Don't get in that bed or he's going to get those pants off.
2006-06-21 07:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by tsopolly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R TOO YOUNG TO BE THINKING ABOUT THAT.. ITS CALLED GO TALK TO UR MOMMY ABOUT ALL THAT. BUT ABOUT ALL THAT COULD HAPPEN IS U WOULD GET C.UM ON UR PANTS NOTHING CAN HAPPEN IF IT IS NOT INSERTED INTO UR VAGINA.. BY THE WAY DOES UR MOTHER KNOW UR ARE ASKING COMPLET STRANGERS ABOUT SEX... U NEED TO GO TALK TO UR MOMMY NOW. SO HURRY UP RUN DONT WALK AND ASK UR MOMMY U R STILL A LITTLE KID AND SHOULD NOT EVEN BE THINKING ABOUT THINGS LIKE THAT. AND IF THATS ALL UR B/F WANTS U FOR U SHOULD DITCH THE CREEP. CASUSE IF HE DID GET U PREGNANT COULD U ON UR OWN TAKE CARE OF A CHILD CAUSE I DOUBT HE WOULD HELP AND A 11Y/O KID CANT GET A JOB SO HOW WOULD U FEED THE BABY AND CLOTH THE BABY WITH OUT BEING A WELFAIR BUM AND BEGGING OFF OTHER PPLS HARD EARNED MONEY
nastylazy:
Im 11 years old and my name is stephanie. And i got pregnant when i was 10 and a half. i got my period when i was turning 10 in my birthday i got it. and that say i got my preiod for the second time i saw a guy he was 39 years old and he started touching me and he was squeazing my boosbs and ***** so then me and the 39 year old "had it" so i got pregnant. so i had my baby tiwns, shhhh!
IF ALL THIS IS SUPOSED TO BE TRUE ON WHAT U SAID WHEN U ANSWERED ANOTHER PERSONS QUESTION WOULDENT U KNOW WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF U SUPOSEDLY GOT PREGNANT AT 10 YEARS OLD. WHAT ARE U SOME TYPE OF IDIOT GO BACK TO SCHOOL AND BE A LITTLE BABY CAUSE THATS WHAT U STILL ARE. SO IT SOUNDS LIKE U ARE NOT A VERY GOOD PERSON LET ALONE A LIER OR SOMETHING. BUT UR PARENTS MUST BE PRITY SHITTY TO LET YOU BE DOING ALL THIS SH.IT SO WHERE ARE UR PARENTS ANYWAYS DO U EVEN HAVE ANY. U NEED TO BE LOCKED UP IN A GIRLS HOME FROM THE SOUNDS OF IT THAN U WONT BE ABLE TO HAVE SEX UNLESS U HAVE SEX WITH A GIRL CAUSE THATS ALL THE WORLD NEEDS NOW IS MORE DUMB KIDS LIKE U BREEDING
From: nastylazy
Subject: duh u F-ing idiot.
Message: Of course i was lying u idiot u so f-ing stupid it even says im lying cuz SHHH!duh! que mierda
2006-06-21 14:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 11 years old. Please do not have sex with your boyfriend. The one thing that stuck out to me was you said you did not want to have sex. Then don't let him pressure you into it. You are so young and you probably think that he loves you and if he does then he will accept and understand your reasons for not wanting or being ready to. If he does not undersatnd then he is not worth it. I waited to have sex until I was 20 and even though all my friends were doing it, I knew that I wanted to share that expierence with someone who truely loved me. I am so thankful that I waited, It was really worth it. Having sex takes on a lot of risks, pregnancy, diesease and emotions. At 11 years old are you ready to be a mom? Are you ready to possibly contract a diesease that could prevent you from ever having a child? Are you ready for the hurt and pain that comes along when the guy breaks your heart? There are so many things to think about. I know it may be hard, but talk to your mom or another trusted adult
2006-06-21 14:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay .....
*first of all how old is your boyfriend?
++Second why are you on here at 11 yrs of age? Where are your parents that you can sleep with your boyfriend let alone get in bed with him?
*+*+ Next you are not doing it if either have your pants on,you can get diesease from him, or worse you can get pregnant by doing it with him.....Tell him if he really loves you, he will wait until both of you are old enough to handle the responsibilty of having sex like having a baby!!!
Then tell your parents you are ready for the talk!
2006-06-21 14:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by Sex Toy Party Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave you alone.. If your not ready then he should respect that.. Be a strong confident women, and say no you are to young..do you want to be a baby having a baby?? OR have Aids or some other disease at the age of 11 that would be very sad. Stand up for yourself and tell him to beat it. The right guy will wait for you and respect you. This kid just wants a piece then he will drop you like a fly. You have your whole life to have sex...just enjoy your childhood... Good luck
2006-06-21 14:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really are way too young to be considering having sex. If you don't want to do it, then you shouldn't let your boyfriend pressure you. This is just the beginning. Through your life, there are going to be many men who want to have sex with you. You have to learn how to say "no" politely but firmly and keep being friends. If he tries to make you feel bad or puts too much pressure on you, cut him loose. When you feel ready, then you make the decision to have sex when you're totally ready.
Before you make that decision, please educate yourself about sex, about the risks involved. Protect yourself. Always use a condom! Learn about condom expiration dates. Learn about Sexually Transmitted Disease, and about pregnancy.
Having sex is special and fun, but its also a huge responsibility. Your question shows that you are not ready for that responsibility because you don't know enough about sex. Please, please wait!
In answer to your question, if anyone's pant are on, you can't have sex. Both of your pants need to be removed in order for him to penetrate you. However, there are ways to protect the exchange of bodily fluids. Exchanging bodily fluids can cause pregnancy, infections and other problems. The easiest, cheapest and most common method is a condom.
2006-06-21 15:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mocha_latta_ice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to make a big mistake. REALLY BIG. Don't have sex with him, tell him he's sick and ditch him. At 11, of course he wants to (every guy does) but they control themselves until marriage (some don't). You can't get pregnant unless his *** gets inside of you somehow ("down there" or "back there").
WHAT A LIAR!!!
"Im 11 years old and my name is stephanie. And i got pregnant when i was 10 and a half. i got my period when i was turning 10 in my birthday i got it. and that say i got my preiod for the second time i saw a guy he was 39 years old and he started touching me and he was squeazing my boosbs and ***** so then me and the 39 year old "had it" so i got pregnant. so i had my baby tiwns, shhhh!"
2006-06-21 15:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by Hot T-Bone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are 11. I think you are giving up your innocence too early. and if you get in a bed with that boy he will get your pants off and you will not object out of fear of displeasing him. Please don't be alone with him. There are so many other things a pre teen should be doing at your age. If you're asking about these things then you are not ready. Please don't give it up so easily. Sex when you are young is painful and heightens your risk of cervical cancer for when you are older. You are still growing and are not ready for sex.
2006-06-28 10:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by murph_ltt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously if you leave your pants on, whether he has his on or off, you can't have sexual intercourse, or get pregnant....his penis cannot penetrate you through the fabric of your pants.....you should definitely not have sex at least until your more mature or not until your married...don't let your boyfriend pressure you into it if your not ready....if he doesn't respect that your not ready...then you should show him the proverbial door.....meaning get rid of him! your only 11 years old..you have more things to explore and learn that's more important right now than sex....by the way if your boyfriend happens to ejaculate sperm on or around you you cannot get pregnant if it's not actually inside your body...if you do make the decision to have sex please use a condom...never have unprotected sex.....save yourself the heartache.....
2006-06-21 16:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by MELISSA&ERIC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh! don't let him talk you into something you don't want to do! if you don't feel comfortable talking with your parents find someone you can trust to talk to about sex. You have a lot to learn. you are not having sex if you have pants on but he doesn't need to be rubbing his stuff all over you either! pleeease go talk to someone! maybe just bring up sex in a conversation with you parents even if you don't want to tell them the whole situation. that way you learn without feeling so weird
2006-06-21 14:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by kirkskitti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋