2006-06-21 07:11:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dining Out ➔ India ➔ Delhi and NCR
It is not necessary, but it is a good idea. It is not about a compatibility issue, but rather it is an issue of morality. Waiting until you are married is a choice that you will not regret. When you are married you show love for your partner by having intercourse with them and learning together how to make each other happy. Waiting until marriage is rare these days because the media desensitizes us and makes everyone think that casual sex is okay and safe. The best way to prevent STD's and other deadly diseases is to wait. Don't think that you need to go around testing the opposite sex to see if they are compatible! That is just ignorant. When you find a person that you want to spend the rest of your life with you will know and if you waited to have sex, that moment will be much more meaningful and special.
2006-06-21 07:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by VOLLEYBALLY 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not a question of neccessity. it is a question of should/should not. The Bible syas you should wait until marriage for a variety of reasons. Marriage is a union between a man and a woman and when that marriage is consummated through sex, the spiritual, physical, and emotional marriage is complete. If you have sex before you are married, you open yourself up to a host of problems, namely: uncertainty as to should you have done it with this on or that one or that other one, you have nothing to give your partner in the physical marrige that sets them apart from the vast majority of others you have known , and quite possibly loved, but never committed yourself to, you risk disease, you may bring a child into a world where its parents are surprised and possibly unprepared, you may face the ecision of ending another beings entire future life because of a passing hour, you may not ever find real love because you may be too preoccupied with the physical. On the other hand, when love is present, sexual compatibility is never a problem. Two partners who care enough about each other to at least try can work this and other differences out (if there even are any). Sex is not some separate thing from marriage. Is a big part of marriage, just not the other way around.
2006-06-24 16:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by da chet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not necessary.... but it is a whole lot better. Because then you know that your partner isn't likely to cheat on someone else. And then you are giving your partner a wonderful gift, instead of wasting it, because if your not married, your relationship might not last long. And then you'd waste the gift for that perfect someone still out there...
HIH.
2006-06-21 07:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with volleybally- to have sex before marriage is just selfish and will only hurt you and the other person in the long run- even if you believe you will get married anyway. It's much more fufilling to wait.
2006-06-21 08:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by Angie's mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very necessary. You shouldnt have sex until you are married and willing to spend your life with that person.
2006-06-21 08:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not necessary. Just ask about every 8 out of 10 people, lol. It is your preference, I'd suggest it though.
2006-06-21 07:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by Dead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not necessary but if you plan to marry it is prudent and wise for legal, medical, and moral reasons both for you and the person you want to share your body with.
2006-06-21 08:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by m7a7c7h7i7m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on u how u take , some prefers for sex but not for marriage and some vice-versa .
but having sex before marriage makes married life boring and i dont know much about this because i m 17years boy
2006-06-25 21:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by neer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you feel the need to explore a partner sexually then yes because sex is important in a relationship because you enjoy each other..not everyone is compatible some like it rough and ready some need a bit more emotion
2006-06-21 07:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by shaliise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does one have to do with the other?
2006-06-21 07:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by quartzschism 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋