My so called "best friends" are getting on my last nerves, they don't take nothing seriously, they are always mocking me,belittling me and they don't respect my privacy. They even lied to me and told me my boyfriend was trying to cheat with one of them.
2006-06-21 07:01:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First, you need to realize that your definition of the word "friends" is taken from a dictionary of errors. What you have described here is NOT friendship. Acquaintances, sure, but not friends.
If you don't want to make a big scene, then just change the direction you're reaching. Ease out of your relationships with them - just make your own plans by yourself or with other people you know and meet, and don't be available to them. Fade out. You won't be missed except when they're looking for someone to game on.
If you DO want to make a big scene, then throw all the crap they've pulled on you into their faces. The result is the same, you're free of them - but since they obviously like to play games and try to mess up your life, I would recommend not fueling that fire.
Good luck - but since you'll be making positive moves forward, you really won't need my good wishes. Enjoy your journey, and look forward to it. grin.
2006-06-21 09:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Crooks Gap 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very difficult situation. Unfortunately, this is not going to be easy. I'm in a similar situation and I suggest treating it like a band-aid you've got to take off, just close your eyes and do it. They are going to be pissed and might even call you some names, but do not let them bring you down. Two things that you need to remember in deciding what to do about this-people only do to you what you allow them to do to you and if they are not supporting you during the good times, what do you think will happen when the bad times come. You can try talking to them, but I get the impression that they won't listen to what you have to say. Good Luck
2006-06-21 07:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by writeroftheyear1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooh, the same thing happened to me. Well, kinda.
Over the summer I just didn't hang out with them. I found new friends. Then when school started I hung out with my new friends and not them.
If you are still in school just slowly start to drift away from them.
Or tell them kindly what you just told us.
2006-06-21 07:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it mite be hard but you dont want friends that will lie to you and you dont want someone that dont respect you the best way a think is the best way to break up with your friends is just go up to them and just tell them i dont like the way you treat me and i like it time for a change and i need to stop hanging around you so this is goodbye
2006-06-21 07:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by mai mai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With friends like them who needs enemies? Find some real friends, they are out there somewhere
2006-06-21 07:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by fuzzyfatrabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punch em in the genitailia.
2006-06-21 07:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by james 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them that you think that they arent being a good friend and that you want to find a friend that can be that for you.
2006-06-21 07:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
crap thanks for the 2
2006-06-21 09:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by danzahn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋