asks you for money, do you have any problem giving her that money? And what do you think of the lady that draws up a promissory note on that money she borrowed?
2006-06-21 06:29:30 · 5 answers · asked by rayrayray1359 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i believe that she probably wants to earn your trust and respect. If she is your wife or girlfriend, she may want you to keep separate finance from personal, I know some men that feel that if when they give money to a woman, they have earned it already. Which is the wrong way of thinking. I would not worry, obviously she intends to pay it back, by signing the promissory note, it just makes it more legal. Leaves her feeling like its more of a business transaction, then ok...let me go and screw him to get the money.....Kudos to her....more women need to be like her.
2006-06-21 06:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by angel_fire_2149 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After having a baby your relationship is bound to change. I'm also a SAHM and we don't have sex often anymore. We don't bicker, but we definitely are struggling financially. My husband is finishing up school, in the military, and working two other part time jobs. We're careful with our money, but some days it feels like there's just not enough. We make it through though (debt-free). We've talked about me returning to work, but we do not want someone else raising our child and the amount of money I'd be making would probably only cover childcare, so what's the point? Don't fret too much. Find a family member who can babysit for a night - go out on a date; something as simple as a walk and having dinner together in a park. Then coming home and have a little romantic time. It's difficult when you add another person into your relationship and family. It is, as you said, just temporary. Change your attitude - you're lucky to have a husband who is willing to provide for you and your family. Don't let it get you down. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. Good luck, stay happy!
2016-03-26 23:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont have any problem giving my wife money . we have a rule , if its over a certain amount then we will talk it over . there are exceptions to this rule however...around x-mas and birthdays..we dont ask stupid questions . other than that no problem . as for the "NOTE" , whats up with that? i am thinking that in a marriage that only promotes distrust in each other. And an open channel of communication had better be opened real soon to clear the air.
2006-06-21 07:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by thunderson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're talking about a lot of money. Be careful. Giving money to people you love (or friends) is like gambling. Only do it if you can afford to lose it. take the promissary note. It will hold up in court if it ever gets that far. But anything over $100, I would say no. Because the loan becomes your burden to collect.
2006-06-21 06:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na, no problem. maybe i'll kid with her and tell her she owes me one or thanks for last night lol. the note though, that's kinda weird
2006-06-21 06:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by hairyandscary1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋