Ok i have a cousin (same sex) we don't talk to each other because of whta happened between us a couple of months ago like you knowi guess we were attracted to each other but we never told each other how we felt and because of thet reason one time we kissed and scence that day i asked my cousin to forgive me because of what had happened because my cousin is younger than me and we don't talk to each other scence then now i fell like telling my cousing how i feel but i don't know how? and i also want to ask my cousin for their feelings. What do i do?
2006-06-21 06:15:17 · 9 answers · asked by superalo12_24 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are young, aren't you? Cousins play around all the time, it means nothing whatsoever. And it ain't incest...good grief, we are not talking about making babies here, it is called experimentation. Relax, leave it alone and go about your life.
2006-06-21 06:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your cousin and explain the way you feel. What happened was spontaneous thing and that you will never do THAT again! Explain you are sorry that you let it get that far. I am sure your cousin is feeling uncomfortable and is one of the reasons he/she has stepped away from you, fear that it might happen again or is embarrassed. We are all human, give your cousin a call and apologize greatly. Explain you want to put it behind you and from now on you are going to forget it ever happened and will not speak of it again. I think your cousin will be thankful to hear that come frown you and will agree to never speak of it again either. Cousins are family and this type of thing is frowned upon in society. Really, call your cousin and talk quietly and gently, it is an embarrassing moment and you don't want your cousin to feel awkward or uncomfortable anymore.
2006-06-21 13:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by Fays Daze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eek, yucky sort of. But remember the main reasons we don't do our cuz's is for blood sanguinity. Speak up and be heard you can't feel any less. You are not going to have kids, I slept with my mum's cousin some people don't respond to that well, but sometimes it'll happen... really who really cares?????
Luck to you and your happiness.
2006-06-21 13:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by trash_pony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your true feelings, but have no misunderstanding regarding my next message: DON'T HAVE SEXUAL RELATIONS WITH YOUR COUSIN! Imagine explaining the scenario to your family and friends. It would be such a strain on your relationship that its bound to fail.
2006-06-21 16:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When is incest EVER okay? Since you were older than your cousin and took advantage of him/her you are an incestuous pedophile. Get help and chemical castration!
2006-06-21 13:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to them. but dont tell them you want a relationship becasue they may not feel it is right to do that.
2006-06-21 13:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u and how old is ur cousin
so i can asnwer the question a lil' better
2006-06-21 14:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is pathetic! you don't ask for forgiveness for something you did that you liked. and you also don't pursue him/her, simply because he/she is a relative, however closely/distantly related you are.
2006-06-21 13:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by toohevi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAND UP AND TELL IT ASIT IS THEN FORGET IT
2006-06-21 13:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋