2006-06-21 06:06:17 · 12 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If he loves you, he'll understand and be happy for your new addition. If he gets angry or does leave you, it should be the best thing to happen because that proves that he wasn't willing to stand by you no matter what and would you really want to marry someone like that? Congratulations about the baby, I hope everything goes well for you three.
2006-06-21 06:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by shesautomatic2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'm assuming this is your fiance's baby. I am not sure why you would be afraid of him leaving you, what kind of fiance would leave you for bearing his child? Anyways, that is besides the point.
Sooner or later he will figure it out, so you have to tell him. The reason you should tell him, is because if he finds out on his own he might get upset that you are trying to hide it and that's not good. Now I'm not sure if you are planning on keeping this child, it's your choice, but I would say you should definitely talk to your fiance because has a right to know and tell you what he thinks. Also, if you can, talk to your family members and close friends to get other input before making your decision. That will be up to you. Good luck.
2006-06-21 13:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Do you think you can raise a child together? Why would he leave you if he asked you to spend the rest of your lives together he shouldn't want to leave. If he does leave then he wasn't the one for you and some is out there that is better. Don't make pregnancy a disappointment make it the most beautiful time of your life. But don't hide it from him that is even worse he will be mad that you waited too long to tell him.
2006-06-21 13:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you have thought that out before you open your legs? There are laws that will make him pay but not make him stay. Many insecure females think becoming pregnant will keep a man or run him off.
Being that you both did what it takes to have a child, take care of it. The focus should be on your baby, not him.
2006-06-21 13:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Richard Stapleton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit him down and tell him the truth. You guys are planning on getting married, so he should be okay...it just might speed the process up a little. If he does leave you, then thank God it happened before you got married b/c he's obviously not going to be a good husband to you. This happened to my boyfriend and I before we got engaged. He lost about 20 lbs in 2 weeks, but he never even thought of leaving me. We are married now with two beautiful girls.
2006-06-21 13:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by momof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll first things first, don't abort the baby. Second that's why you wait to have sex until after your married. Move up the wedding and speed up the process, if not you need to rely on your family and friends.
2006-06-21 13:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you , he will love his baby...do not worry
just talk t him... you may want to think a bout the best way to break the news... but sooner is better.
and if he is going to leave you ... which I hope he will not... then you have to go for consulting...
Take care and good luck
you have to be happy now :)
2006-06-21 14:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it.
Let him know what you're afraid of, and ask to get married sooner. Let him know that you love him, and want him to be involved with the child.
2006-06-21 13:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would doing things to secure a future for me and my baby. If you don't have a job, maybe you need one to prepare for a financial future.
Does he know that you have fears of him leaving? Ask him for re-assurance.
2006-06-21 13:24:09 · answer #9 · answered by Katherine M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will leave or stay no matter what you do... forget about him. You have a child on the way soon... Start taking care of yourself for your babies health.
Time to grow up
2006-06-21 13:10:07 · answer #10 · answered by Grin Reeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋