2006-06-21 05:43:09 · 36 answers · asked by missy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
she already has by getting pregnant when she was fifteen.
2006-06-21 05:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hope your not asking because your pregnant but to answer your question yes just by getting pregnant you can make it worse more by drinking or smokeing while pregnant because this could cause birth defects that in the long run will not only ruin the childs life(the baby considering that the 15 yr olds still a child too) but the parents by having to deal with the special needs for the baby and not haveing any time or money to do the things that they like.
But its not all negative if you buckle down now finish school strong get a good job and take good care of the child by the time the childs 18 you will still be fairly young and assuming that you dont have anymore unless they are planned you will have a lot of time and money left in your life to do the things you want. Its all on the parents outlook on the situation if they view in negative it will be if they make something positve out of it yes it will be hard at first but the benefits later could be better than if you waited to hhave kids its all how you take it
2006-06-21 06:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by puresplprix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if you get pregnant its not the end of the world. I knwo people say that its wrongand teenagers cant look after a child. Its hard work but a baby changes you for the better, you suddenly become more mature and know what to do it drives you to do well in life. I am a teen mum at 15 and before I had my son I was a horrible person who wasnt going anywhere, I got pregnant and now im training to be an interior designer and start my own buisness in the next few year and im only 17. There are tenn mums out there who make "stereotpes" but there are people put there who can handel it. you'll get a few noses turned down at you but they didnt stop me and they shouldnt stop you.
2006-06-22 08:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by cherri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, NOT by being pregnant. By doing life-destroying things like hard-core drugs etc. she would be ruining not only her life but her baby's life too. Any pregnant mother of ANY age should take good care of themselves, get regular medical checkups, avoid drugs and nicotine and alchohol, and eat healthy foods.
If you are 15 and pregnant then congratulations! You are starting a family early but it's no tragedy and with proper support you can be a great mother AND complete your education AND go on to a great career.
If you are pregnant, i've included a list of resources below that you might find helpful, including a letter from a mom who had her first baby at age 15 telling how it was and how it worked out. and definitely get the father involved and ensure he knows he's responsible too.
2006-06-21 05:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by realmomof4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, but she has already ruined the life of her child by getting pregnant at 15. Try to talk her into giving the baby up for adoption. That way, someone who is ready and equipped to love and raise a child will have the baby, and she can get on with her life.
2006-06-21 05:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Betsy Jayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can but dont stress urself out u can be as good a mother as some 1 who is 30 yrs old it will be a little easier if u have support from some 1 like parents or friends . it is hard for any 1 having a baby no matter what the age. u can still have a life but it revolves around you and your baby u may not be able to go getting drunk every weekend or go clubbing very often but u can have little breaks from your baby it will do u both good ask a parent to look after him/her dont leave your baby with any 1. will u be getting support from parents / bf / or bf parents this can help a lot good luck with the pregnancy =)
2006-06-21 05:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is my answer for some other questions kinda like yours:
Ok, first of all, you are on Teen and Preteen, that means you are TOO YOUNG. of course no one wants to do it with you. What will your parents think? you're trust with them wil be blown forvever, and they can kick you out of the house, I'm serious, Trust takes years to build, but seconds to chatter. If you blew their trust before, and were working so hard to earn it back, years, maybe, you'll blow it in a couple of seconds when you make this mistake of your life. Wait till you're married, cuz its not worth it. Deseases, STDs, AIDS, and more can occur. You're never safe, not even with a condom. Believe Me, take the risk when you are actually ready to be a mother, and out of school, and married also. If you're friends pressure you to do this, and say, you wont be cool, they're not real friends, they just want you to ruin your life, before they do. Don't fall under peer pressure, dont let them put you down when you don't have to be put down. Make the right desision. Bring a child into the world when you are ready and married. Please listen to me and don't have sex. PLEASE!
2006-06-21 08:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by la. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a start she did so when she decided to have unpertected sex and get pregnant. But now she will now have to think of the future as it will not only be just her she thinks about. If she has understanding parents who will watch the baby while you finish school or for that matter decide to go to college or university. She would also have to think that what is now besst for the baby no herself. That all means no staying out late with friends and where ever you go the baby goes.
2006-06-21 07:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by honeybunnies93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, My step-daughters friend is 15 yrs old. She had a baby a couple months ago. She doesn't have free time. She is in and out of the hospital with him. She had to grow up very fast. Live your life... why the rush?
2006-06-21 05:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by lrybio2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they sure can. Just think how's a girl suppose to go to school and do everything else there is for a 15 yr old when there's a baby involved.
2006-06-21 06:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by sassy79_420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say she has totally ruined her life, if she gives that baby up for adoption, her life is just put on hold for about 9 months!
But if she keeps the baby, she definetly has chosen a tough road! And most likely won't be able to do anything her friends can do, and won't give that baby a life it deserves!
2006-06-21 05:49:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋