im getting married in Sept. i think i'm hotter than my fiance, is it wrong to think this way?
2006-06-21 05:41:14 · 12 answers · asked by Blonda 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow, lots of oponions. ok just cuz i think im hotter does not mean i dont value that he is a wonderful person. and he's not ugly, i just think im hotter. maybe im so freakin hot, that he can be hot but just not as hot as me. you all read way too much into these questions sometimes. unless you have a PhD. dont try to psycho analze me, just answer my freakin question!
2006-06-21 05:55:38 · update #1
Not at all, but now you should get out there and prove it baby... Let's have you riding some strange hot guys before you're married... Try it, you'll like it!
2006-06-21 05:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 6⤊ 5⤋
No, I don't think so. But I think it's unhealthy to dwell on it because it will cause you to not value your spouse in the future.
Honestly, my husband and I are probably equals in the looks department. I have a set of friends where at first glance (and I know this is wrong, very wrong), you wonder "How did he get her". Then you get to know her and you realize that SHE is the lucky one to have him.
We all have areas where we excel. I'm better at some things than my husband. My husband is better at other things. Looks are just another "area" when it comes to couples.
2006-06-21 07:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by iam1funnychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Are you?
I mean, if you are a troll, physically, then you would be really dillusional to believe yourself "hotter." If your fiance is a troll, then (since physical beauty is obviously very important to you) why are you marrying him, and will you be satisfied to stay married to an ugg-o?
Think about it before you say those endearing words, "Where do I sign?"
2006-06-21 05:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to know that you are hotter.
But, it's stupid and shallow to think that people in relationships are supposed to be equal in socially perceived attractiveness.
I suspect you are one of those who uses the term "quality" in reference to people. That's pretty wrong.
Don't get married. You are probably choosing a mate for the wrong reasons.
RE: You're "freakin' question" is ridiculous. My bad, for presuming that there had to be more to it.
2006-06-21 05:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by limendoz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, at least you're not dillusional and have good self awareness.
2006-06-21 05:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not wrong. i guess you have a positive frame of mind (and body)
2006-06-21 06:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by midas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, perfectly normal.
2006-06-21 05:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by jhornneon23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i dont think that its wronge!!!!
2006-06-21 05:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by babygrl_42006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no of course not.
2006-06-21 06:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by sweetcake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-06-21 05:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋