I have never had this kind of attention.I think the devill trying to tempt me . LOL
2006-06-21 05:29:56 · 29 answers · asked by darrenfanelli 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honestly, you are probably just noticing it more now that you are about to commit to one woman for the rest of your life.. no, I'm not saying that to scare you either.. but if it does then you really need to think about saying "I Do".. this is a big step and a wonderful one at that if you are doing it with the right person and at the right time..If the flirting is tempting you you might need to take that into consideration, after all if you are tempted now sweetie, what's going to happen if you are flirted with 10 yrs after getting married, is your bride still going to be the most beautiful and sexiest woman in the world to you so it will be easy to say "no", .. think of everything and know in your heart you are making the right decision before doing it.. Good Luck!!
2006-06-21 05:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by DAZED & CONFUSED 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it actually is normal; if the women flirting with you know that you're getting married. Alot of women, consciously or unconsciously, will find a man more attractive if he is getting married. Generally there are three reasons for this. Number one is that most women fantasize about getting married since about the time they are five years old or so. They are drawn to the entire idea of marriage and the wedding (generally speaking) and find anything about it alluring. It's what they shoot for so sometimes you may find yourself getting caught in the crossfire. The second reason is that women are suddenly aware that there is something about you that another woman finds attractive enough to marry coupled with the fact that you are obviously the marrying type. That's also quite alluring to them (again - generally speaking) so you may start garnering the attention of women who may not have known you existed before. Both of those situations are harmless and most women don't mean anything by it - it's just playful flirting. The third reason a woman may find you attractive when your getting married is that you are now a challenge. This is not so harmless. Some women simply can't get geared up or attracted to someone unless they see you as someone who is hard to get. Their flirting has a whole bunch of intention behind it so your best bet is to run in the other direction (or just ignore it). Whatever you do, don't ever be suckered in by it because as soon as you did anything with her, she wouldn't see you as a challenge anymore and would leave you in the dust; after telling your fiancee of course!
2006-06-21 13:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by stinkeenudz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women pick up your confidence and security, and it is a turn-on. You're off the market now, so you're not worrying about impressing women, which is the best way to impress a woman. If you love your woman, just tell the other women you appreciate the attention but are off the market. If you're too tempted, then either something's wrong in the relationship or you're just a young and horny devil.
2006-06-21 12:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by jaybirdri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just never noticed it until now. That's not a bad thing so long as you don't give in to that temptation. It's just like when you turn 21 and no one wants to see your ID. You exude the confidence that you're of age and no one will check it. Same rules apply here I think. Congratulations on your upcoming marriage.
2006-06-21 12:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not the devil. Women for centuries have been taunting one another's betrothed and even bf's since the beginning of time. They are so clever as to attempt to take the mate or potential mate from another of the gendet and make it the male's fault. It is a no fault gender as women do not cheat according to them it is the male. HHHHMMMMMMM..
2006-06-21 12:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's a trial that you have to overcome if you really are ready and wants to get married. try to think of things many times before you get involve with it. think of the things that may happen and if you won't regret it in the future. it's normal to feel that way for marrying people, they used to get attention from opposite sex that they think will ruin their incoming marriage. hope you'll overcome it, if you're love is strong, you'll be strong enough too to face this situation. think what is more important in life.
2006-06-21 12:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by babypards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely. it's a law. Murphy's Law or the Law of Average's or somethin. Like when your runnin late for work, the bus takes looong to come and when u get on it there's heavy traffic. But when you leave a lil early the bus it there when u get there and breeze's through traffic easily.
2006-06-21 12:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the women...
That forbidden fruit thing. If you're marrying the right person you'll enjoy the attention but nothing could tempt you enough.
2006-06-21 12:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by young_oc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal. It is just like my friend who couldn't get a date to save her life. As soon as she got a serious boyfriend, she had so many date offers she didn't know what to do! HA HA that's just the way life works.
2006-06-21 12:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. Females have a 6th sense about these things. As soon as they know you're not sniffing anymore, they suddenly notice you. It's like your scent changes or something! At least you know that you're desireable, so enjoy it while you can!
2006-06-21 12:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by hellzbellz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋