2006-06-21 05:19:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have a couple of friends but how do I know if they are my true friends I am only 10.
2006-06-21 05:35:35 · update #1
Kay
Relationships should be a two way relationship!! If these friends want you to be there for them and.... there not there for you! That right there... should tell you something. You'll know in your heart....If there a good friend, listen to it. It may seen already that you feel they don't care. Ask yourself why!
2006-06-21 05:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by myocean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to know for sure. That's one thing about giving your heart, to friends or lovers: the element of trust. Have you ever been in a situation that required them to help you, with little or no cost to them but little to no benefit, either? Did they help you? I've been in that situation before, and my friends didn't help me, so we got into a fight over their reasons for not helping me, and now they're not my friends, anymore.
The real question is: why do you want these people to be your friends? Is it because of what they do for you or just because of who they are? You can't change other people, so you should only worry about yourself. You should never ask of anyone what you wouldn't do yourself. I'm not saying that you're doing any of this now. I don't know if you are or not. I'm just saying that concentrating on you will take away the stress of worrying about them. Worrying won't lessen the pain, if and when these people hurt you; it will just cause more pain while you're waiting.
2006-06-21 05:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by jaybirdri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are always happy to play or hang out with u and are always there for u when u need them.
if u want to know they really care, pretend u r sick and see if they will visit u.
2006-06-21 05:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more info would have helped, but they will normally give of themselves to help you, that's what i do for my true friends
2006-06-21 05:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by jesus_freak_forever3days2grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They wouldnt want to see you get hurt and they are always there when you need to talk to them.
2006-06-21 05:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend that you're hurt, sad and cry, if they leave you alone not cheering you up, then you know the answer.
2006-06-21 05:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by DBSK LOVER! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋