Why and how can they do that? And once your cheated on how long until your ok with the cheater?
2006-06-21 05:14:25 · 10 answers · asked by Youngstill 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They usualy say: im going with the boys c ya! but they will secretly sneak out.Or they will pretend to go to work and secretly go out.You will never be ok with that but mve on.
2006-06-22 06:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
There are a variety of reasons why people cheat. Some are:
(1) to feed their ego...alot of people want to feel desired, instead of desiring to feel wanted.
(2) Because they think that "the grass is greener on the other side".
etc. I personally think that the period that you are "ok" with the cheater varies by person.
2006-06-21 08:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband of 20 years cheated with a co-worker the ironic thing is this girl and I have the same first and middle name , he told me it started out a just needing to talk and then led to more he was going to leave me but she would not leave her husband. the biggest problem is she treated me like a friend , and with medication and time we dealt with our problems, but I told him I never stay if he hurts me again. I have actually spoken to her since and it has made me a stronger person because if you can forgive then you are a wonderful person and it helps you heal. But it will take time and you need a real support team to help with the pain . Our marriage is so much stronger and we communicate now ,and spend time together. I did make him leave that job I told him I could not take seeing him there , and he wants his marriage to work so he found a better job.
2006-06-21 05:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by liss_skinner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what the polls say, women cheat more then men. They just don't get caught as often because men are stupid about it and don't want to believe or accept the fact they were cheated on.
2006-06-21 05:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found out about a month age that my husband cheated on me I was so outraged at the woman to where I just practically let him get away with it.I realized that I should be mad at him he was the one that betrayed me.After 2 weeks of me being angry I decided to let go of the anger, but it felt like I was letting him off the hook.I don't understand that.
2006-06-21 05:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by sherell212004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many ways. Some women forget easily and carry on with him while he cheats time and time again. It goes on til they are old.
2006-06-21 05:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're ok with it as long as they come back. Women just hate knowing that they have to share a good f**k with someone else.
2006-06-21 05:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by Mega_Nic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? too many reasons. How? it's usually very easy they don't have a conscience and don't respect the other person .
You can forgive someone for doing it but never forget.
2006-06-21 05:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why they do it. probably to test the waters, to see how far they can go without getting caught. and i think youre never ok with it. i think it will be better as time passes but it will never go away, it will always be in the back of your head.
2006-06-21 05:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by BeAuTiFuL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never forget but u can forgive..if your stupid! Leave that fool!
2006-06-21 05:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by May-May`s mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋