Hi Iam 29 and wana get marry but I am student outside of my country far away.
what do you think? getting marry is good or just increasis my problems?
what are the benifits and problems?
2006-06-21 05:07:34 · 9 answers · asked by Great Man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
look here bud im 30 and ive been married b4.....but i screwed up and took for granted what i had. i am involved with someone new now and i have truely learned what not to do to jepordize this one.....who i am also planning on marrying in the future. just do what feels right....but when you do get married treat her right and make her feel loved everyday no matter what. hugs and kisses everyday no matter how pissed she makes you. if you can swallow some pride every now and then you should be ok.
2006-06-21 05:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by jjne1469 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I know tha tmy answer will come across as racy or begitish, but hear me out. I think that if you are in school and you want to get married then go ahead. There are a couple of things that you need to think about before you do it though.
1. Is this lady of your culture. I have no problems with blacks marring whites, or any other combination. What the issue is, can she deal with you culture and all that comes with it. I have had many friends marry Fuji men and had no idea how that culture works, they became sad and it ended in divorce.
2. Are you planning on moving back to your country and even if she says yes she would does she fully understand the culture there and what part she must play. I have met ladies who had to move to middle east countries after marriage and they had to change almost every thing about themselves.
3. Plan ahead. Is what you want really going to work out for you. And if she is misearable there are you willing to make her happy and come back home.
2006-06-21 05:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by rkkcandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the both of you are in love and crazy about eachother...talk about what complications may arise in the near future. Do you want to stay? does your spouse-to-be want to move?
Marriage is a big responsiblity. I suggest counseling or reading a book on preparing for marriage.
2006-06-21 05:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sexual chocolate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what your problems are. Maybe you should be asking how to solve them. Marriage may not be the issue that is puzzling you.
2006-06-22 23:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by peppermint_paddy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you going to live with your wife? Marriage is something you want to do when you are ready. Are you ready?
2006-06-21 05:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by hardcoco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in your case i would wait. go home and find a wife. while here in usa just get as much a$$ as you can
2006-06-21 05:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by rickherr10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
problems increase you have to share everything and some times you don't want to.
2006-06-21 05:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd wait until u go back home, then get married.
2006-06-21 05:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jen S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no love and respect there, it will collapse
2006-06-21 05:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋