I am a "good" girl - I study well, listen to my parents, dont drink, dont smoke, dont dress provocatively, dont do sex on the first date and am religious. I like listening, not talking.
I think that makes me a bore... How can I become interesting, fun, attractive to men without sacrificing my religion?
2006-06-21 04:55:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Smile when you're in company of men who act like gentlemen.
Frown when you're in company of men who act like they want and deserve sin.
See the problem here is that you want to be attractive ... but, in being attractive, you can attract the men who's souls are ugly; they objectify women, and are materialistic. It's up to you to shine through and give gratification to the men who are gentlemen instead of creeps!!!
Would you want to attract Howard Stern??? Or would you rather attract a man like (similar too but not) Joel Olfstein???
The choice is yours!!!
Remember, "Patience and Perseverance is a Bishop to his Excellency" <1>
2006-06-21 05:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Well, really you don't have to give up that much because now a days guys are looking for good girl and not a bad one so all you need to do is start talking more because if you can't hold up a conversation then you have nothing and depending on how you dress now you might want to spice it up a little bit nothing short or revealing just more style and color and last but not least you must the looks and a beautiful smile which I'm sure you have and you can get any guy you want and still have your religion too!
so have fun and good luck!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-21 05:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by PrincessBalla1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write down all the things that are fun to you:
going to shows
having a water balloon fight on a hot day
hanging out at the mall & making fun of people
minature golf
having a little get together, cookout or picnic
go to car shows
look up local events in your area
buy a dog
become a cheerleader
hang out with people that do cool things that are acceptible to you
take this list (make your own of course) & see how much of it that you can do.
you are not a bore, you just need someone to balance you out
You are interesting & fun or no one would waste their time answering your question
men like girls that are outgoing & do stuff... it does not have to be sexual or religious.
hope this helps,
ss
2006-06-21 05:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Starscream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever sacrifice yourself because someone else sees you as a bore. The right guy is out there. Besides being a bore is so much better than being the other the begins with the letter W.
God Bless and have a great day
2006-06-21 05:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JSC2,
Being a good girl and being a bore are not synonymous, so don't think that you have to choose one or the other. There's a wide distribution of guys and what they look for in a girl; just keep focused on the ones that align best with who you want yourself to be.
With that said, I have to say, as a guy, that I like "good" girls but nothing is as unattractive to me as religion. Personally I like smart girls, ones who are capable of critical thinking and standing on their own feet, but religion has to stifle critical thinking to stay in business. But, that's just me - I'm sure there are guys that would prefer their girls not to be able to think.
Good luck!
2006-06-21 06:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mankrik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your own interests and meet people with the same interests. Live your life and follow who you are, that makes you a strong selfconsious person and therefore interesting to others.
2006-06-21 07:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by Bloed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to atleast worship satan
2006-06-21 05:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋