ok, 13 years,same guy...
so if you asked your wife to change her hair from brunette (see pics)
to blonde...is it cause your bored or you want her to remind you of someone else,or is it to liven things up? why would you want such a drastic change,please be honest...in all fairness i have done the blonde thing before,could he have really liked it? would this retain your interest?
http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/c.renteria/album?.dir=9aa6&.src=ph&store=&prodid=&.done=http%3a//photos.yahoo.com/ph//my_photos
2006-06-21 04:34:49 · 14 answers · asked by crystal 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thats not a problem. Do you rather have him cheat on you and go with other women? It helps a marrage to have change once in a while. Do you keep the same curtains up, year after year? Good luck and have fun with the changes! ;)
2006-06-21 04:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by Benthere 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I have been married for 11 years to the same lady. She is a brunette and I have never thought about her changing her hair color. If the two of you have a good relationship he could be just asking you to do this to liven things up. I doubt that it's to remind him of anyone else. Is there something you want him to do different? Possibly wear something he doesn't normally wear or grow a beard or mustache or if he has them to shave it off!
It is a two way street and if you are going to do this for him you should be able to ask him to do something for you in return.
I think you look great as a brunette but I am not him so maybe he does just want to spice things up a bit and this is his suggestion.
Good luck no matter which way you go.
2006-06-21 14:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husbands want their wives to be a lady in the face of the public, but behind closed doors he wants us to be downright slutty, which I have no problem with. I think your hubby would love it if you roleplayed with him. Try a cheerleader costume, a maid's uniform, a nurse's uniform, etc. The point is to play and have fun with him. HE can dress up and strip for you, too.
Tie him up with scarves and blindfold him, then give him the time of his life! He will be putty in your hands. He won't be thinking about another woman when you've given him all these "treats" because it will be your sexy face he sees when he's at work and OOPS, a nasty thought runs thru his mind. A haircolor change is a mild, but effective way to add spice to your marriage, so stop being so fussy and give in to his animalistic needs. You'll benefit, too. You may even discover that you can be SOOO naughty. Nothin' wrong with a married couple getting down and dirty. I guarantee that if you take the bull by the horns your marriage will be better than ever!!!
2006-06-21 12:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by garayfive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, let me tell you you are a very attractive woman, brunette or blonde!
He might be trying to spice things up a bit. For some reason, we men think blondes have some sexual hold on us. And a blonde with dark eyes has an exotic look too.
The big question is whether YOU liked being a blond? Did you notice any additional attention from him (or other men) and did you enjoy it? Don't do it if it will make you uncomfortable.
2006-06-21 11:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by extra_37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do hispanic women alway think like that that we are thinking of someone else. or that we are bored Maybe he likes you as a blond I personally think you look great as a brunette I saw your pics. Hey to each his own. right. I would do anything to keep my mate interested in me. If you dont maybe he will go looking for it somewhere else.Do it. You can always die it back to a brunette. This is not permanent.
2006-06-22 08:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have been together for 13 years. i don't think he is not attracted to you. i just feel that sometimes it is good for a change women with blonde hair present them selves has a more sexy female. i know i have had blonde hair now for 7 years and my husband loves it and so do i. i feel more confident, younger, and sexier. go for it.good luck.
2006-06-21 11:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, not exactly an answer, just an opinion. If you changed your hair color, it would be a crime. You're a lovely brunette and it fits your face and skin tone perfectly. Change NOTHING! (Fight the system... viva la revolucion!)
2006-06-21 16:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by William H-P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband would not want me to change it unless i wanted to as he loves me for me and just the way i am.... He may want you to do this so that he can see how you look as a blonde. eh may not see it as a drastic change. Color comes and goes and it will fade. Just do it for him and see what happens.... Ask him and see why he wants you to do this so bad!
2006-06-21 13:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were him, I would want you to stay brunette, you are very good looking, going blonde would cheapen your look. He probably has a fantasy girl and wants you to try to be her.
2006-06-21 15:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by deluxe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your hair the way it makes you feel better. if u want blond, then go for it, if not then tell him how u feel about it! also, if ur not sure why he wants that, then ask him!
get a wig, to make u both happy, lol
2006-06-21 11:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by thundakat312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋