Me and my boyfriend are 6 months pregnant and I would like to know other guys opinions on the appearance of their girlfriend or wife during their big stages of the pregnancy. Did/do you guys really continue to be attracted to them, did her growing, moving belly scare you at times, etc.
2006-06-21 04:34:21 · 9 answers · asked by foxzie006 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I've heard many women say they feel unattractive when they're pregnant. Perhaps some are unattractive, but my wife sure wasn't.
Here are some facts to consider.
1. A pregnant belly represents love and adoration made solid. It's physical evidence of your love and itimacy
2. A pregnant belly isn't fat. Fat is soft and squishy and unattractive. A pregnant belly is firm and taut and fun to run your hands over
3. Pregnant women's breasts tend to grow and firm up in a very appealing way. I know somebody who joked about getting his wife pregnant again just so her breasts would swell up again.
4. Remember that much of physical attraction is biologically programmed. Both sexes are programmed to find generally healthy and fit members of the opposite sex attractive, and generally unhealthy or unfit unattractive. Men are NOT programmed to find pregnancy repulsive. It's counter to evolution. Men are 'programmed' to like seeing their wives pregnant, because it means they're producing offspring and starting a family. It means she's fertile. Men tend to be more protective and loving when their wives are pregnant.
5. Ask him to show you how he feels. If he's turned off by your pregnant state, it'll be clear. If he finds you beautiful, he'll find a way to show you. (Remember, though, that some men are terrified of hurting the baby, which can keep them from getting too physically involved. This does not mean he finds you unattractive. You can find positions you can both be comfortable with.)
Good luck.
2006-06-21 05:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mantis 6 · 8⤊ 0⤋
I am very attracted to my wife and she is at 37 weeks. Of course it make love making a lot more difficult with positions and such but overall I find it sexy. It also opens up the door to trying new things and finding different ways to please each other. But honestly if I had to choose her either pregnant or not I would choose not pregnant.
2006-06-21 05:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Erowe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally see my wife as very beautiful when she is pregnant. Pregnancy is a very beautiful phase of life. Having a big belly doens't mean that you are fat, you are just great with child. I love my and adore my pregnant wife.
2006-06-21 04:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by nartox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the real men the the feelings and attraction never stops most will say their wife or girlfriend is even is even hotter when she pregnant. The boobs are bigger and the sex ohhhhh my god! It's great.
2006-06-21 04:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by jerrry f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys thinks the belly is sexy.... of course we dont but hey, he helped create it so he should love it. Some guys have fantasys of having sex with a pregnant woman... dont ask! I have NO idea.
2006-06-21 04:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by lucki_charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think pregnant women are beautiful. I love to look at them.
2006-06-21 04:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by Gatorz22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, my father knew my mother was pregnant way before she ever got it confirmed with her Dr. Granted she was pissed, but sometimes the men pay more attention to our moods and body changes than we do..
2016-05-20 08:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband loved it. He thought I looked adorable. He used th esay "You are the cutest pregnant lady I have ever seen"
2006-06-21 04:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It didnt change my feelings for my wife at all, she still looks great to me, at 39.5 weeks.
2006-06-21 04:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by bmwdriver11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋