Me & my boyfriend broke up four months ago and then got back together three weeks back & broke up a week after that, but when we broke up he said that he still love me & God knows that i still love him. But he said that if we stay together there is an 80% chance that he will do something stupit & it is going to hurt me & he don't want to hurt me. we still talk on the phone & he keeps saying that he loves me. This is driving crazy because i love him with all my heart and soul & it's kill me to know that we can't be together. So should i sit around and wait for him to relize that this is taking us know where or should i give up? i don't know what to do.
2006-06-21 04:21:51 · 9 answers · asked by shygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
move on. it's hard to make a relationship work especially when they're back and forth like that. if he thinks he'll hurt u, then he will. he'll think it's alright, cause you'll come back to him n-e-ways. find someone that'll b good to u!
2006-06-21 04:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by thundakat312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is human and makes mistakes. HOWEVER, speculating that 1 out of 5 times an opportunity happens, he will hurt you or do something that hurts you is too much of a chance.
You need to move on, before you find yourself stuck in a bad, abusive relationship.
2006-06-21 11:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by IWasWondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He'll either realize the good thing he had when he sees you moving on or he won't. If he does and you still want him go for it however the off and on seems like you both need to just part ways
2006-06-21 11:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be withsome one who is planing to hurt u,im a guy and damm i dont even plan to hurt the person im with you dont deserve that.remember one thing love only goes and does so much.dont base it on how much ur in love,find someone that will respect ur love,and feelings.
2006-06-21 11:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by vito194 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are allot of sayings here but the one that comes to mind is if you set him free and he comes back he was meant to be if not find someone who can love you the same way that you love. true love is hard to find so set it free and see if it comes back if it doesn't it was not true love
2006-06-21 11:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know there is two types of love....committment love , friendship love...if you have a pattern of break ups thats not good...he shouldnt use god , because god also knows if he is honest with his love, but only god knows the heart...we dont because we cant see inside, all we know is actions..he is saying "hey love me, but i probally will hurt you", isnt real assuring is it? he probally isnt the guy for you, only you will know that..
2006-06-21 11:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by braider27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All he is doing is keeping you on a leash! He knows that the minute he calls you will drop everything you are doing just to please him. OPEN YOUR EYES!!!! Trust me ! Girls have to look out for each other..... cause nobody cares.
2006-06-21 11:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u jst b cool...nd patient..wait 4 another 2 weeks...u'l know..
2006-06-21 11:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by N i S H.... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-06-21 11:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by mami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋