Is a sexual toy a bad gift to give a girl for her birthday who is turning 21?
I have known this girl for a very long time and we have been friends since highshool but we have never hooked up. just so you know, no her parents will not be there. and this gift is not ment to be offensive its what I call a gag gift, my family does it to me all the time. I just want to know if it will be funny or will she not talk to me again.
2006-06-21 04:21:15 · 14 answers · asked by marty justa wonderin 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
BAD IDEA.
You embarass her and yourself.
2006-06-21 04:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Iridium190 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It really depends on the person, and how comfortable they are around you concerning the subject of sexuality.
There's no way we can answer this question w/o knowing the person you're asking about.
However... if you want to give her a sexual gift she could actually use, perhaps give her a gift certificate to a sex-positive, woman friendly sex boutique nearest you? Most of these stores have an online store, have shipping all over the world, and sell gift certificates that can be redeemed online if there's not one that's really near you.
http://community.livejournal.com/menstrualhut/1484119.html is a LiveJournal entry I made once as a Reference Page with a list of all the sex-positive, women friendly sex boutiques I could find. (One edit to the list. "Toys in Babeland" is now called just "Babeland" and now has a 4th location in Los Angeles.)
2006-06-21 07:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by chicks_dig_unix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to get her a gag gift, make sure its over the top kind. cuz its supposed to be a "GAG" gift remember. if you get her like a slick small vibrator, she'd feel very embarassed about it. at least if the over the top kind, she will think that its funny..... esp those funny looking things. like a elephant tong (i'm well aware that its not a sex toy but its just a suggestion) or duck shaped nipple clams or something like that.....
if she is an out lesbian, then this might seem like you have a special interest in her....
if she is straight, then she might freak out cuz she might think that you wanna get into her pants...
so over the top kinky stuff is ok i guess.... if you are really scared then maybe label it "GAG GIFT " so no one gets the wrong idea of things....
good luck ;)
2006-06-21 05:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by Rainbow nation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if it's a gag gift and her parents won't be there it's funny. Ever heard the old saying if it bends it's funny, if it breaks it isn't? Use that to help determine whether your gag gift will be well-received. Best wishes.
2006-06-21 04:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those sort of gag gifts are the best because for once they have a use. Even though they may never admit to you.
2006-06-21 04:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by trash_pony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 05:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she aware what a "gag gift" is? and she aware that you received such kinds of gifts from your family? does she have a sense of humor? if so, then it won't hurt, and you both will have a very good laugh about this gift
2006-06-21 06:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by toohevi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know her better than I do -- do you have the kind of relationship that this would be fun?
You could really tart it up -- with silly, maybe even pornographic, wrapping paper, with ribbons and such. Make sure it's done in such a way that she will think it's funny and wild and I think you'll be fine.
2006-06-21 06:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by blueowlboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll luv it. Gag gifts are the best. Go for it!! ^_^....I can only imagine the look on her face when she opens it.
2006-06-21 04:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by T. Emopire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if someone gave it to me for a gift, I would
think it was very funny but yet very strange.
2006-06-21 04:33:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy another gift let people get their own sex toys.
2006-06-21 04:26:25 · answer #11 · answered by tjknoclass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋