okay i have known this boy scence i was eight and okay i admitt i have liked him that long but most of the time he has a gf but now he is single b/c his gurl friend sent a text to the wrong phone and now i wanna step thing up how should i go bout that?
p.s. i know the spelling and grammar stink
2006-06-21 04:16:55 · 15 answers · asked by lil_bit_ 44 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How about just approaching him and mentioning to him an event or activity you would like to go to and ask him if he would take you there? For instance, ask him to take you out for ice cream, to a fireworks show (just the two of you), to eat, or something else you would both like to do.
From there see where things lead. If you feel you both had a good time then ask him if he would like to take you out again. He will catch on.
2006-06-21 04:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Glenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, never try to change yourself for another person, change because you want to change for you. There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy, and you'd be surprised...many girls are sick and tired of the "bad boy". The fact that you already have a girlfriend means that you don't have to play the cat and mouse game anymore, you have what you want. But if you're having problems, then there's a difference between what you want and what you need, and in that case, neither one of you fit each others needs, therefore the relationship may not work. For the future, should you decide to pursue another girl, then you don't have to be the bad boy...I think what that internet source meant by disconnections is not to give away so much information in the beginning. Let a female discover who you are, rather than you telling them. We like asking questions to get to know the real you. Good Luck!
2016-05-20 08:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to lunch and flirt...unless he's made of stone, he'll get the idea, eventually. A further note, since you have known him so long as friends, he may not be prepared for the switching of gears (sort of like having your sister suddenly flirt with you). Give him a time or two to catch on...and don't take it personally if he doesn't respond immediately...bring up sexy subjects also (pack a Cosmo quiz or something).
2006-06-21 04:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by c_schumacker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thanks for the PS.
Anyway, the guy obviously doesn't realize that his GF isn't going out w/ someone else, she just made a mistake. Further, do you really want to be w/ a guy that dumps his girl for an innocent mistake?
If you decide to step things up, try to sum up the courage to tell him *beforehand* (being straightforward is the best policy). If you can't do that, try to spend some more time w/ him, get him one-on-one if you can (no, not sexually!).
2006-06-21 04:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by ibkidd37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you can tell him how you feel and see what he thinks. If its good ask him if he would like to be with you. What's the wait? Ask him...nothing is stopping you. I say to never give up till you succeed. So he may be the right guy you've been looking for all along. If you 2 get together, you 2 maybe together for a long time.
2006-06-21 04:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have known him thins long then you know him well, what are his interests?? use one of those interests to get him to do something with you like if you both enjoy concerts and they are having one ask him if he wants to go along, if your family has a cook-out call ands ask him if he would want to come. give him some time after his break up but be his friend and be there to listen if he needs to talk about her but, after a little while you will be the one that has been there for him and that will make you look pretty good, just keep it light and simple and don't get too mushy too fast just keep it fun and but let him know in little ways like saying things like you know I have always thought you were pretty cute. just work things like that slowly into your conversations and get his mind going and thinking...you have to plant the idea into his head and give it time to grow..best of luck!!
2006-06-21 04:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by captures_sunsets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like u 2 have known each other for a while so u must be good friends so just let him know u are interested in him..if he doesn't feel the same way..hey its alright..it just wasn't meant to be..there is always more fish in sea girl and I am sure your friendship with be fine!!!
2006-06-21 04:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by J~me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there fo rhim spend time with him and flirt it up , make him realize your the real thing an dyou can treat him better than anyone esle can , if its meant to be it will happen if it doesnt at least you tried
2006-06-21 04:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by yamarider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for him and support him. Then when he is over the girl he will remember that you were there for him and that would be a good time to express your interest
2006-06-21 04:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by itiswell4me8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just flirt with him, maybe at a party or something if it makes you more comfortable. he should step up if he's attracted to you
2006-06-21 04:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋