Do you think it's unwise to move 3 states away w/a bf or gf? That has not even discussed marriage?

Question

I told him he wouldn't either if it were him. I said something like "we're only boyfriend and girlfriend, we're not that serious. why would I follow a boy across the country?"
We've been dating for 2 years, living together for 1 year.

Am I wrong to do this? Or should I compromise w/him?

**If he moves away I have told him we're definitely breaking up.

Answer 1

If I was living with a girl for a year and dating her for two, I would consider it serious. If he went out with another girl, would that be ok, since its "not serious". Not sure why he is moving, but seems you either are looking for an escape or pressure into marriage. If your looking to end the relationship, just end it, dont get him to stay if your unhappy, and if your looking for marriage, pressured ones rarely work.