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my husband might be in realtion with someother women i read his mails but it was his mail id but his name was not there but the places he go was same so when i ask him he denied now i have left him and living with my mom how can i know that he is true or lier

2006-06-21 04:02:25 · 12 answers · asked by shelly j 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

12 answers

What is it going to help you knowing it is true or a lie. You know when you have to know and you don't when you don't; c'mon live with a free concious and breathe the free air freely. if you love him stay with him if you don't then why bother in the first place to find out his secrets.

All screws with a little oil come off no matter how tighlty shut.

2006-06-21 04:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by Bennetton 1 · 2 0

Someone once told me that unless you are just a distrustful person of everyone and thing, if you believe something is wrong
with your marriage then there proably is. Usually, when you find things that aren't on the up&up, then something is wrong. The part where most of us, whether we are women or men. fail is not wanting to notice the truths or owning up to what we know or feel because WE LOOOOVE THAT PERSON. Well, the sad truth is that person does not love you, at least not the way you deserve. So what that you are back living at home. Regroup, hold your head up, make some adjustments and move forward with your life. There is someone out there who will love you the way it should be and will only want to be with you. A lie is a lie is a lie.
Whether online or in person.

2006-06-21 04:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by twanieskies 2 · 0 0

ask him a question. like what county he was born in. Or what was someone's maiden name. Something he has no reason to lie about. See where his eyes go when you ask him the question(s) (left or right). Then, ask him about his emails...see where he looks. If it's the opposite of where he looked before, he's lying.

We tend to "look" for the information in our brains in different places. One place is where we are looking up data that is already there (maiden names/counties). The other place is where we come up with a story/lies.

Or give him a piece of paper to hold in his hand and see if he's shaking. When you ask him. It's easier to spot hand-shaking if they are holding a piece of paper.

Or give him a piece of gum before you ask him questions. Liars will chomp away at the gum like there's no tomorrow.

2006-06-21 08:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by iam1funnychick 4 · 0 0

There are some pretty good liars out there. Your best bet is to follow him, or have a friend keep a close eye on him for a week. If he's cheating, you know. Though there must be other problems, if you've left him without any proof of infidelity.

2006-06-21 04:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0 0

when you ask him about it you will know in your heart if he is lying to you that is a instinct women have and is always right,but there are signs like twitching of the eye mouth and hand movement towards thefact,nervousness,race of breath alittle,cant keep eye contact

2006-06-21 04:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by treatau 6 · 0 0

Most of the time when people lie, they can't look at you in the face and they look down or look to the left.

2006-06-21 04:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0 0

Normally, if you have reason to suspect something is going on it's because it usually is. I think you know your answer since you felt the need to leave. I'm sure the signs are there.

2006-06-21 04:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by shae 6 · 0 0

u never know my husband can look right into my eyes and lie straight to my face

2006-06-21 04:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by toni h 4 · 0 0

He won't be able to look you in the eye and deny his involvement!

2006-06-21 04:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by extra_37 4 · 0 0

in my experience, he's lying if he can't keep his stories straight, if he seems sneaky with his phone and computer etc., if he gets angry fast if you question him, and of course if he can't look you in the eye.

2006-06-21 04:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by honeybaby729 3 · 0 0

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