When I was 8 years old I was raped bye a boy who was 2 years older then me I never told anyone until 19 years later when I got a job at a place where his mother (who is also my mums best friend) works she told me the job was there if I wanted it I took it but every time I saw her I could see the sons image in her and it brought back the memories off him raping me I ended up on anti-depressants & I ended up telling a worker who told my boss who got very upset with me and sent me home I told mum everything she went round to the mother off the person who raped me and told her the mother no longer is talking to us after 24 years off friendship. I have been suspended with pay until further notice
2006-06-21 04:00:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
im so very sorry for wot u have been through. i would suggest u get some councelling to help u deal with all of this. as for your mum, she may not want to continue the friendship with this woman, let her decide that. she must be feeling absolutely terrible. as mothers, all we want to do is protect our children from the bad stuff, she will be going through so many different emotions right now, guilt, anger, sorrow. i suggest she get councelling to help her too. u can also ring a crisis centre for support when things get particularly bad. i would leave that job, there will be others. the boss sounds very unsympathetic, u dont need that right now, u need support. get away from there, u and your mum both go for councelling and get through this together. best wishes dear. hang in there.
2006-06-21 06:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by crophilia 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Your Mum is your Mum first and the other boys friend second. For every normal mum, we can't help thinking that when something like this happens, we should have known. Your Mum is uset, hurt and angry.
And when a 10 year old boy does something like that, where did he learn it? Kids don't make that up.
I think you and your mum need to go for counselling, there are rape crisis centres that help men. Contact one and tell them about all of this.
Your Mum is being your Mum. She may repair the friendship herself in time, but she is also upset so don't push it. She has to deal with her own feelings first.
Best wishes to you.
2006-06-21 04:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by sarah c 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pls say ur mother about your position and discuss with her,as mum is the one who must be with always
2006-06-21 04:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your best.
2006-06-21 04:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by bicurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋