I am a woman and I do not and never have masterbated. I am a very sexual person and I enjoy sex alot. I feel like the only way I can get aroused and get off is by having sex, not masturbation. I wish I could get off from masturbating, but for some reason, I just feel like I am just touching myself and nothing is happening. I have tried vibrators, but they don't do the job either. What the heck is wrong with me?
2006-06-21 03:53:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
The mind is our largest sex organ; if you don't engage it while trying to masturbate then it's likely you will have difficulty.
Some women just have difficulty fantasizing. If you have difficulty, try replaying some of the most erotic experiences you've had in your life and gently massage your clitoris; it's not a race, just let physical stimulation come from your mental stimulation a little bit at a time.
Masturbation and fantasy takes practice. Once you've accomplished the basics, it's fun to imagine almost everything, even things you would never try in real life. It's a wonderful journey to explore the sexuality of your mind and body. Just ake your time.
2006-06-21 04:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 14⤊ 4⤋
If you are enjoying sex and feel you are a sexual person, maybe its psychological, something in how you were brought up maybe, to feel that masturbation was wrong.
Start by being relaxed, like just out of the shower, get lubrications and touch yourself gently in different areas up and down your body and see where it feels best and go from there.
2006-06-21 10:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I thought you said you have never masturbated, and then you said that you cannot have an orgasm you just feel like your touching yourself. Only you can touch yourself in the right places and know what feels good. I have had orgasms from toys and With just my hand. And I also love sex with another person but masturbation is great.
2006-06-21 11:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by Nascar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women are able to feel pleasure from masturbation and some aren't. if a vibrator is not doing the job, try a dildo and have a vibrator on your clit. see if that doesn't do anything for you. if not?,there's nothing wrong with you. you are you and there's nothing you can do about it. you love sex and the only way for you to achieve a climax is through having real sex. not mastubating... don't worry about it. you are the way you are because you are. no freats...
2006-06-21 11:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by pixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, girl. You probably just get turned on different. Everyone is different. I had never masterbated until my boy went out of town, then it was a different story. It just kept me out of trouble. But, you are lucky that you get off by having sex. Most of the girls I have talked to don't. They mainly get off by oral. You have to set yourself to a certain mood for the "touching" to actually feel good. If you really want masturabtion to work for you. Check out cosmopolitan.com and solo sex. Best of luck to you!
2006-06-21 11:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is nothing wrong with you. Half of the woman in the world cannot get aroused by havig sex, most have to have some toy or touch them selfs to get turned on.
You do not have a problem.
But if you want to try it then here goes.
Get a hold of porn movies {a variety}and see which one gets you turned on.
and then if you do get turned on, get your toys that are not in use
and use them see how you feel
your friend
blue butterfly
2006-06-21 11:02:02 · answer #6 · answered by BLUE BUTTERFLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No nothings wrong with you. Yes I would agree to watch some porn. Here is a site that always turns me on (and yes I am a girl too)...just watch the trailers a few times, and maybe it will help you to get in the mood. Then just be patient with yourself when you explore your body. Hopefully this helps. I like these clips because I find them very respectful of women. Its like its about the women on there enjoying themselves for themselves, instead of acting for the camera. I would recommend the one named Ashely (on the first page), and Ginger (have to click for more video's at bottom). They are my favorite! Have fun!
http://www.herfirstlesbiansex.com/s1/index.html?revid=46838&nopop=1&refer=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.sex.com%2Freality%2Findex.html
2006-06-21 11:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by Green Tea Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, you just prefer the real thing! Hey, there are a lot of women that way. Why settle for less when you can have a man satisfy those needs!
2006-06-21 11:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by georgiapeach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey theirs nothing wrong with you some people, Just get arosued differently.
2006-06-21 10:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.wild thing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try watching porn of women doing it that will probably help u better and think about ur bf at the same time
2006-06-21 10:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by zkimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋