My boyfriend and I have been 2gether for a little over 4 months now. Everything was moving so fast but it was going good. Now I'm pregnant and I am starting 2 see things that I saw be4 but cause of me being pregnant I feel a little more upset about it. Now, I didn't mention that he stays with his baby mama. He told me that if I move closer to him that we will get a place and everything will be cool. Ok, I moved to a town about 13 miles away and he quit his job once I moved. What the f@*^ is up with that. Now, up til last week he was spending alot of time with me, but lately, he hasn't been calling to see how I'm doing or to see if I'm hungry or anything. He took me away from everything I had and brought me back to square one. I am a good woman and I know it, but I am really starting to see that I can do better. He aint cute anyway and his baby mama look like a big head brown skinned seal. For real I'm not hating cause I'm beautiful for real and I think he is insecure of being with me.
2006-06-21 03:38:04 · 9 answers · asked by sugalipz4real 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not all and not always
2006-06-21 03:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One you shouldn't be with a man who is still living with his other baby's mama because there could be something going on with them that you don't know about. Two it seems like he got what he wanted and seen how much of a hold he had on you when you moved closer to him.
It's time for you to tell him what it needs to be like because you have a baby to think about now too.
2006-06-21 10:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly the fact that he stays at his babys mothers house is a sign he could be cheating on you if he is not living with you then he has a carefree life as i see it,and yes you moved to be closer to him he is pulling string around and you could and will do better even though he is the father step up now before it gets worst,or wait untill you have the baby then step up and leave and start a life with your newborn,you will soon enough meet your real one true love and they wont ever do anything to hurt you they will love you and treat you with repsect and suppoort you and the baby,are you sure your not settling for second best here,because i think you would be if you stayed with this guy
2006-06-21 10:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did not settle for less, you did. You were a booty call, nothing else. While you were seeing him, he was living with another girl. You moved closer to him got pregnant, and now he is losing interest. Go back home, get a lawyer and make sure he pays support for this kid.
2006-06-21 10:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move back to were you are comfortable, and leave him. he may have helped in the process of making the baby, but he doesnt have to help raise it. plus if he is living with his other baby's mama, then there is something going on their. find a real man that will help you raise that child and tell him to f#@ck off
2006-06-21 10:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by <3King Julian :-) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his ****!!! Because he aint worth fighting for... Gurl that happened to my best friend in the world. So I know what you are going through. my guess would be to pray about it.... Hey if you need something or just want to talk you can email me.
Redrebelchick2006@yahoo.com
2006-06-21 10:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by Stormie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sugarlipz....sorry to say, but you we're just a "booty call", face it, he's never going to be anything but your baby's daddy!
2006-06-21 10:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be in problem.please talk to him.
2006-06-21 10:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by indiangovt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GAY that is wot
2006-06-21 10:41:02 · answer #9 · answered by palywithme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋