I wanna tell my girlfriend but i cant find a way to do it and making her believe me
2006-06-21 02:55:18 · 12 answers · asked by xraiders_fan21x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, the sweetest time my man told me was in the middle of a small get together at a mutual friends house. We stood in the kitchen, talking casually and i made a joke and after wards playfully said "i love you" he pulled me close and all the noise in the back ground faded then he said "i know we play around with it but, i want you to know i do love you..." He put his forehead against mine and we swayed back and fourth. Then someone pushed by us and the mood broke. lol.
The setting doesn't mean as much as the sincerity behind the words. If you love this woman, the bond your trying to build with her will be your guide, not us. You got this...
You go boy! Tell her in your very own way. Good Luck!
2006-06-21 03:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by Bianca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all most girls should be excited that her man would be willing to say such a thing unless circumstances have proven the thought otherwise, it depends on why she wouldnt believe you. Do something that would trigger good memories in the relationship like a treasure hunt leading to the big sentence, take a stroll in a romanitc spot and tell her using descriptive words of nature how special she is ending with..."and that's why I Love You", or write her a poem.
2006-06-21 03:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by tigressoflilies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot promise that this is the best way but this could be... First, be a good, intimate listener. Girls love guys who listen to them and a shoulder to cry on...Here's how to tell her...Ask her favorite number. For example, she told you 8. Send her a card with flowers and/or a stuff toy with a note: I'll going to tell you a lovely surprise on the 8th day...send her balloons with chocolates (or anything you prefer romantic) from day 1 to day 7 and tell her your true feelings on the day 8, with witnesses, with a puppy, kitten, or pet birds or anything that would really surprise her together with saying your intention to her. Would that be lovely? Good luck to both of you!!!
2006-06-21 03:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you really LOVE someone you would just say it. The question here should be, "Do you really love her?" I don't think so! Love is like a water faucet it won't stop until you turn it off. If you really loved this girl..... Your question would be - am I floating on a cloud or am I dreaming? Therefore, you would immediately tell her you love her and it wouldn't matter if she loved you back.... Ask yourself, are you really in love?
2006-06-21 03:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by Khakyil48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, dude. give her this really long, sappy speech about how much you care about her but don't use the words "i love you" untill the very end. hold her hands and look into her eyes the whole time. after that offer her a promise ring and put it on the finger that you would put an engagement ring on. We girls love that crap. your probably a jerk in real life, but hey, that ur gf's problem.
2006-06-21 03:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by KB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something really unexpected, doesn't have to cost money, it is very much the thought that counts with us ladies. What is special to her? Find out what it is and relate it to that - e.g. bake her a cake/take her for picnic/fix her car/cook her dinner/draw her a pic (if you are good at art)/visit her parents/Grandparents without moaning.
2006-06-21 03:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Happyface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you underestimate the power of the first time you tell someone you love them. It's huge - and because it's so big, it really won't matter when or where you say it.
2006-06-21 03:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could say "I love you" if you haven't already; If she loves you back, then she will believe. No one should be questioned about their feelings if they have displayed them.
2006-06-21 03:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by RX2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL HER HOW U FEEL.... Women love when men finally let out their feelings!
2006-06-21 02:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out someplace nice and talk intimate stuff, it will come by yourself
2006-06-21 02:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by Joe The Great One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋