My friend is pissed at me because she thinks ive been lying to her and making things up! even tho i hardly talk about her to anyone.. Anyway, i rang her up and grace answered, (this girl i don't like) and was being a real biatch towards me, cause my friend jade wouldn't talk to me. I was telling grace things to say to jade, saying that i havent said anything. Anyway, grace starts telling jade totally different things like.. "beau doesn't like you, he never has" which i never said! i said to grace "stop f***ing changing my words" and shes like "what, what i'm not" and said that jade said she wanted nothing to do with me anymore... Anyway, grace started being a real smart a$$ towards me, so i said "shut the f*** up grace, your a dirty s*** and you always will be" Ive got so much adrenelin, i just wanna punch them in the head! Worst is, jade is going out with my ex boyfriend, and i was going out with him for about a yr n lost my virginity to him. Shud i bash them?
2006-06-21 02:36:38 · 13 answers · asked by #.::PenguiN::.# 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, i don't need to grow up. And no i'm not 12. They want to bash me for no apparent reason.
2006-06-21 02:44:02 · update #1
First off JADE needs to grow up. Shes willing to listen to this Grace idiot over you, her "friend", so I suggest kicking them BOTH to the curb. It actually sounds to me as though Grace has a little thing for Jade herself. If you must communicate with Jade, do so in a letter, that way Grace cant reinterpret the message.
Dont get wrapped up in all this stupid drama, just tell em both when theyre ready to act maturely, youll be there to talk but until then, Jade and her sick little friend Grace should go be very happy with each other. When you drop down to their level, they win. Remaining the person you are will piss them off more than any words you can say to either of them.
2006-07-05 01:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honostly, I would just say forget about Jade and Grace. Move on with your life, I wouldn't start bashing anybody, Because they will probably start telling other people that know you to not talk to you. It sounds like jade and Grace need to get a life and grow up.
2006-07-04 16:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by bowhunter2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....can you read back what you wrote and see how childish it sounds? No well adjusted adult acts or speaks like that. If you can imagine your parents acting that way then perhaps you need counselling for anger management issues that they may have caused?
No ADULT deals with issues by physical abuse, unless they have control or mental disorders because they realise that it doesnt do any good or change anything AND they can go to jail for it.
I know its easy to be frustrated but do stop swearing (its a lazy way of communicating what you really mean), give yourself time to grow and lose the friends as they are causing you to feel badly about yourself. Learn to be a kind, caring, woman, take up a sport to use up that adenaline and you'll attract better people.
2006-06-30 04:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why lower yourself to their standards, honey??? Get yourself some new friends and a new boyfriend and learn to communicate without using the f*** word. You want to be classy not trashy. Don't call anymore; don't try to be 'friends' with people who are obviously bashing you. Stay clear and if you happen to see them, smile as if nothing happened. They are trying to make you like them. Have some respect for yourself, Girl.
2006-06-21 02:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grace is such a ***** and jealous and she is brainwashing jade and jade is trying to be a ***** too, well leave them to deal with their miseries, if they dont want to be friends with u anymore just dump them cos they're not worth it, im sure u will find better friends.
2006-06-21 04:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is enough real things to worry about in this lefetime. Don't sweat the small stuf
2006-06-21 02:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by faintwhispers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first never never go through a third party she is your Friend tell her face to face . that will only make things worse and it wont make either of you fell any better.
2006-07-05 01:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by rodney a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
12?
2006-06-21 02:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its assault and murder and you know murder is one of ten commandments "thou shall not kill" if this problem gets worse she or you needs to see a physicatrist.
2006-07-03 20:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by mamas_grandmasboy06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to grow up.
2006-06-21 02:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋