2006-06-21 02:29:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
As a black woman I have to honestly say that it mainly has to do with attitude. Black women are notoriously famous for having "bitchy" attitudes. We are quick to dis a brother when he approaches, snap when he gets upset because we rubbed him off. We walk around like we are **** instead of being humble and grateful. We are also pegged as gold diggers. We crave more. We will pass up a good man with a standard income to find the bling-bling daddy. Black men have become fed up with this attitude and seek women who are more appreciative and considerate.
2006-06-21 02:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you may have a narrow view. I have lived in the midwest, the east cost, and the southwest. I have also traveled to many other parts of the country, as well as a little international travel. Interracial dating is going on everywhere, moreso now than at any other time. Though I am presently and proudly married to a Black man, I have dated all races of guys. I'm happy that I had a broad selection to choose from.
If it is your intent to date guys of other ethnicities, then focus on that. It's a matter of personal preference. It's no one else's obligation to make you happy, but your own. I will advise you, though, don't miss the opportunity to be with a wonderful man because you looked right past him. Okay?
Also, it's much more important to find a great man with fantastic qualitites, than it is to look superfically at his race, and then go from there. Open your heart, and your soulmate will be revealed to you. Another good way to attract a great man is to become a great woman. Why not start there?
Look inward, rather than outward. Best wishes.
2006-06-21 14:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ancespiration 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing! not all guys who choose to date outside their race prefer asian,white or hispanic girls and i am a black female and i would never date outside my race and i am always approached by those that are not black, so maybe some feel the same as me.
and as far as nicole answer she is wrong she may be like that but i am the total opposite i take care of my own and i dont walk around with an attitude just because i am blessed so i have no need to be upset and i will never pass up a good man for a "rapper wanna be" actually i left my ex-boyfriend who had money good career for someone who did not have as much because i felt as if this guy would treat me better you see i went after my heart not money
2006-06-21 09:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by Child Of God 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with black girls. your "white" prince just hasn't come along yet. maybe the white guys you meet, sense you are not comfortable in your own (black?) skin. if you were, you would not think something was wrong with black girls. i ain't mad at you for your preference, after all diversity and multiculturalism rule!
maybe you are coming on too strong or the white guys you like... are just not into you. take a self assessment and figure out why you aren't getting the dates. stop having expectations about this and just be open to the experience when it happens. black is beautiful...i thought you knew.
2006-06-23 09:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by formerlylunesta@yahoo.com 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is wrong with you... Why does there have to be something wrong with "Black Girls"? why does this bother you.... you have a preference just like everyone else... did you ever think that maybe the men you are looking for...... might not be looking for you at the moment.... we as women are quick to either destroy our self-esteem, because of a stupid stereo-types by society, or quick to point the finger at others.... We as Black women have been burned by all races and should swallow some of the ego which we carry against our own men before we can accept men of other cultures.... WE seem to expect a different type of man because he is white, Hispanic, or other nationalities..... NOT true men are men and we are who we are.... Please don't just seek to have a interracial relationship; seek to meet a wonderful man regardless of his race, color or creed.... First thing first.... Why am I looking for someone of a particular nationality? why aren't I just looking for a wonderful man who will love ME and all of ME and I will have no inhibition with the love we share...... no matter what his color is..... Keep your head up and seek within self before you seek within others....
2006-06-21 10:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by TryMe1st_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, from what I've told is the attitude. I know that's stereotypical and not true for some, but since most guys see that the average black female has a temper, no guy wants to try. Plus most guys just have their preference on females. Some like them all, you just gotta find the right one.
2006-06-21 09:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by yourhairsohot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated two white guys and 3 asian guys before. It depends on the people and their personality /backgrounds and of course what they are looking for in a relationship. I dont have a problem with any race.
2006-06-21 10:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because Asian, Hispanic, or Caucasian women care more about being with the man than they care about their hair do, makeup, clothing, and cellphone.
Maybe a man doesn't want to be out in public with a woman who thinks she's showing off her maturity by speaking in the latest ghetto slang and sharing all her private moments with the people in the same vicinity.
Maybe a man doesn't want to be with a woman who is wearing revealing clothing two sizes too small and high heeled shoes so tall she can't walk properly
2006-06-21 09:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by Blue 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are generalising. I've have seen a lot of white men black woman couples lately especially in Hawaii and NYC for some reason.
What I don't understand is black men who date white women.
2006-06-21 11:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was single i would not over look black women and i have gone out with a couple. But i would over look the ones that do not shave there legs and pits. sorry for being so open but that is a thing i can't take over look. i like a well groomed lady with class. i know this sounds bad but it's all pink on the inside!
2006-06-21 09:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by therockdog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋