My b/f and I been together for 6 months now. We have a great relationship that is fun and loving! We both work a lot! He has two FT jobs and I have one FT and one PT job. One of the FT jobs we work together. His other FT is at home and mine is not. We also live together. The problem I am having is his sex drive has gone down. We went from 3-4 times a week to maybe once a week! We have tried some things to spice it up! What can we do to make this relationship be amazing all around!?!?
2006-06-21 02:22:22 · 10 answers · asked by MsLysa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I love my b/f very much and would never leave him. So please no smart *** answers. I really do need advice and want to make him and I great!
2006-06-21 02:27:34 · update #1
Well the simple fact that the two of you are working two jobs each is a big part of the problem. Why are you? He's tired, your tired and it becomes something else to be done sometimes, instead of being a fun part of your relationship.
If it's possible try to cut back some of your hours, so that you guys can have some quality time with each other. Or at least a day off together. That will hopefully lead to sex.
Try to sit down and talk to him about how you feel he might not really realize how much your sex life has gone down.
I'm still going through this madness with my boyfriend only the roles are reversed.
Drop me an email if you neeed someone to talk to.
2006-06-21 02:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It does no mean he loves you any less. The problem is that you are both working so much that it makes you tired and left with a lack of energy. You need to take some time off and have "alone" time. Plan a weekend where it is just you two and just relax and be together. The relaxing will help you with your energy and that should also make spicing things up easier!!
2006-06-21 02:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are both working way to much. He is probably so tired that he has no energy. Maybe you both need to take a little time off from one of your jobs. He has two FT jobs man that is a lot for one person.
2006-06-21 03:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by T B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me that life has caught up w/ you. Working all the time makes ppl stressed...stressed and tired ppl don't have time for sex. Do you really need all the money? If not then get rid of one of the jobs and work on spending less time working and more time w/ each other.
Honey..just wait to you add kids in the mix...you will be saying "sex..what is sex?"
2006-06-21 02:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by SouthernKNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you're both probably really tired and maybe even a little stressed.
Money is not a bad thing at all, but when you put the material things in your relationship first, the other aspects will suffer.
I would say you need to decide what's more important, the extra money from the jobs, or the needed time to make your relationship stronger.
2006-06-21 02:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be concerned about needing to spice any relationship up after only 6 months......if you guys are just tired resting together can be just as intimate as sexing together.
2006-06-21 02:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by yeouxleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Spears Girls and Hilton Girls... Just looking at their messed up lives is enough of a reason to avoid their advice on anything.
2016-05-20 08:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I had the same problem. If for financial reasons you can't slow down on your jobs, I recommend taking daily vitamins. This really helps alot. GNC has Men's and Women's formulas that really helped us!
2006-06-21 02:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by shellb7088 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Viagra, aphrodisiacs, and lingerie, a romantic night in, candle lights, slow jams
2006-06-21 02:30:17 · answer #9 · answered by Miss B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i am love
yes i need!
2006-06-21 02:26:31 · answer #10 · answered by loveme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋