sex seems to be the only interest for men looking for relationships outside marriage..........
2006-06-21 01:13:30 · 10 answers · asked by ajay p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there are many motives behind an affair,the old line it just happened is a crock of bull,it is given much thought and for men i think it's a challenge for women it is a emotional thing the sense of being needed, attractive to another man.men also need to see if they still have it some do, some don't, some never did,regardless of the reason it is wrong.if your sex life stinks make it better try different things,being a women i can't completly answer why guys cheat but i feel it's an ego thing or maybe their spouse is truely a louse in which case she has no reason to complain we women know men like / need sex and if we are completly against making love then let him go no man or women should be forced to live without it unless it is for a medical reason,in that case then you should find other ways to satisfy each other.
2006-06-21 01:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by PURPLEANGEL 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sex is not the only motive, just a common one. There are usually many factors to consider and each case is probably a little different.
First you must realize that not every marriage is made in Heaven. Sometimes people get married for the wrong reasons. This is especially true if the couple is not really in love, but only convinced themselves and others that they were in love. For such a couple, an extramarital affair for either partner might be a prelude to a divorce that would happen anyway.
There are also cases where the woman feels that she is not getting the emotional support she needs and so she has a physical affair to compensate. It is not the emotions felt that is the problem, it is the actions taken that leads to problems.
With men, it seems to be more physical than emotional, but both can occur. There is some recent evidence reporting that some men who were chronically seeking affairs outside of their marriage has stopped all such activity after receiving physical massages (not sexual) on a weekly basis. These men seemed to lack physical touch in their marriage and had equated touch with sex, so were looking for sex outside of the marriage.
2006-06-23 23:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by Richard 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Marriage includes provides, vows between 2 human beings. So, going outdoors of this settlement is a betrayal of those provides and a breach of have faith. perspectives on intercourse outdoors of marriage are a be counted of morals, religious concept, etc. So, maximum folk of people who've religious ideals approximately sexual limitations interior of marriage have rules that are an identical for single or married. intercourse belongs between the married companions. The Bible is basically as good approximately sexual purity (fornication) in single human beings because it is approximately adultery outdoors the marriage. that's genuine for many faiths. putting all the religious perspectives out of this, then it comes all the way down to the ensures between 2 people who've committed to a existence at the same time. Even "Open" marriages nevertheless seem to have agreements between the spouses approximately what's and is no longer properly-known habit. what's seen betrayal is between the couple. while somebody is single, then it is their very own determination and that they do no longer seem to be betraying vows made to a various who trusts them. What they do is between them and their very own concept device, no longer dragging yet somebody else into the mess. no one is compelled to be married or make provides to a various. Asking yet another to grant you their heart and ask them to have faith you with their existence. it is a terrible emotional trauma for many who discover out that their companion has betrayed that have faith. it is not honest to the companion or maybe the different person in this triangle. So, if marriage between a pair incorporates the settlement exclude outdoors companions, then it is a betrayal to cheat. If somebody won't honor their dedication, then they could desire to stay single. save their existence sort determination their very own. no longer residing a secret 2d existence and hurting others.
2016-12-08 11:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by shedrick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can speak from experience that emotions can be part of extra marital affairs, yes they are frowned upon by most women but you cant help the way you feel bout some one. I learnt that one VERY quickly
2006-06-21 01:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Multitude of reasons, sex, proof of sexual prowess, boredom, need for sharing emotions, bad marriage etc.
2006-06-21 01:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
many times its the thrill of cheating and not getting caught and at other times its the need for what is lacking in their marriage the luster has gone and they look to replace it in the arms of another
2006-06-21 01:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by David G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's a combination of the two. It's not just about sex.
2006-06-21 01:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by Candy Cane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so... i m married... but i felt in love with some body else... it not sexual, we never done more then kiss...
i think the emotion....
2006-06-21 01:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by yellow_tulip28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's both sexual and emotional.
2006-06-21 01:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by Sara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is both sometimes .............. maybe only sex....maybe emotional.............it depends on individual
2006-06-21 01:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by Mellesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋