2006-06-21 01:06:16 · 18 answers · asked by SERENE 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
because your heart always keeps telling you that s/he is perfect for you and doesn't understand a no
2006-06-21 01:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by latina 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Women are generally nurturing. With babies and children the mother molds and shapes them, teaches them. this they learned from their mothers and saw it in action with other siblings. So when in a relationship with a guy, they have a tendency to overlook it because they think they can change him later. Sorry, this is a grown man, ain't gonna happen in the majority of cases.
Men don't change all that much, therefore they tend to think she won't change. When she does change it's a shock to him, but he hopes she will come back to her senses and be who she was when he met married her.
It's all based on hope that the other partner will be the person they seemed to be when they met/married. It takes a long time for most people to realize that most people change with time and that they either need to adjust to that change or let go. If the relationship is worth saving BOTH partners will work on it. If only one wants it to work, ain't gonna happen. One will always be the "loser". By that I mean their opinions, wishes, wants and needs will not be met and self-esteem, integrity and psychological health will be corrupted and damaged.
2006-06-21 01:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ding-Ding 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't love yourself. If you feel that you are not worth treating well then you don't stop others treating you badly. It becomes dependency not love, as you feel that even though they treat you badly they will change or that they are the only person who will ever love you, even it is 'in their own way'. Working on one's self esteem is the only way out, through your own interests and working on who 'you' are as opposed to your identity as part of a couple, but unfortunately some people in really abusive relationships find this almost impossible. You will feel that you should be with the person unless you can come to realise that you deserve to be treated in a nicer way.
2006-06-21 01:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by Agatha's Mum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To quote William Shakespeare:
"The course of true love never did run smooth"
"Reason and love keep little company these days"
To quote Ulysses Everett McGill from Oh Brother Where Art Thou?
"It's a fool who seeks for logic in the chambers of the human heart"
Who knows.
2006-06-21 02:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by LEMME ANSWER THAT! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 words Hung Like A Horse
2006-06-21 01:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sometimes you can't help loving someone. Life would be so much easier of we could choose who we love. Then we wouldn't fall in love with the losers and only fall in love with the winners.
2006-06-21 01:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by peachmonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some one,especially Jesus, loves me though I am not a nice person. That's why I love and want to a person regardless of what s/he is.
2006-06-21 03:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's not a nice person. I loved him not because of his good points. I loved him because of his faults and flaws. That's what makes him imperfectly perfect.
2006-06-21 03:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by BornToTry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u try 2 ignore their flaws coz they're so gorgeous n they make u feel warm inside n all that soppy stuff. love is blind as we all know...n ur just 2 delirious 2 care that they arent as 'nice' as u want them 2 b
2006-06-25 05:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because of love. you accept dat person perfectly sepite her imperfections. its funny how we set qualifications for the one we'll love but for all we know, in the end, the one we love will always become an exepmtion.
2006-06-21 01:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like to think that we could be the person who changes them...
2006-06-21 01:20:24 · answer #11 · answered by djw0860 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋