Well, that's nit reall a question but I just know to get it off my chest - I feel like **** these days - my prarents keep fighting all the time and screaming at ech other, my mom nearly had a heart attack or a nervous break-down, I don't know but she refuses to go see a doctor, my dad is gets mad so easily and now won't ever talk to us, my grandmother who lives with us drives me crazy with her constant askin about every little thing and telling me non stop what to do, I have a big exam coming up and I don't even know where to start, I'm feeling terrible lonely, my best friend has found someone to hang out with - guess I've become boring to her, my other friends don't feel like they're my friends anymore...and I just feel so hopeless, powerless and miserable...and I feel like crying all the time...
Sorry to have bother you with this if you did read it all...I just needed to say it, I guess...
2006-06-20 23:49:07 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Ani♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this too will pass....
i know what you are goin through bcoz i have been through that all my life....my dad used to get really violent....
for so many years i thought things would never get better....i almost grewup on fear.....
but now ...things have changed....
and in your case you have said that "these days" your parents keep fighting.....so may be it isnt that serious....try getting to the root of the problem....
many times....things get out of hand bcoz we dont put in any effort to fix it.....
talk to your parents....make them smile....express your love to them...tell them it hurts to see them fighting.....it WILL make a difference....
its quite normal of your friends to dump you when you are sad.....
n trust me you are better off by yourself than by having such friends.....
the best asset you have is you....
its a hard fact....if you still need friends.....you shudnt share your sadness with them....unless they are really sensitive and have that ability to empathise.....otherwise...you'll lose them...
do some fun stuff with your mom and dad.....take them out for a holiday or something like that.....actions of love really do bear fruit.....
all the best.....
n yea....you are welcome!!!!!!!!
2006-06-23 23:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by . 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thank You for sharing that lonely story of yours, why don't you find a good place to study?Go to the park once in a while with your textbooks, as for your grandmother, well....just think something like:she's asking you questions five syllables per second because she is concerned, worried and cares for you. Your parents? I have known a lot of married people who always fight, but still, at old age, they will forget about everything, they just didn't discover yet how much they needed each other.
2006-06-21 00:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by puno ng akasya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that wasnt a bother at all.it was really nice that you got it off your chest and i know that you are feeling at least okay.i felt like crying too when i read it ,it reminded me of my past.
first thing to do is tell God about it and i know that he will help you greatly.then after talk to your paroz about it and who knows you may get answer to thoes questions in you cute head.
as for your pal talk to her also about how you are feeling about your relationship with her.if she daint want anything o do with you then know that she wasnt a real pal and be strong and move on.life is too short!!
also rememder that you are not alone.im feeling your pain and i will be praying for you girl.right now it seems that you need a friend .contact me with my email i will try and help.
pliz right now focus on your big exam.it the main important thing.
all the best girl.
love you.and hope God will see you through.
2006-06-21 00:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by lashes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl what u need is ppl 2 talk 2 and just lock Ur self in Ur room till u finish
2006-06-20 23:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are the normal problem & part your life now , be patient and complete your resposbility with encorge,possitive attitude,careful etc do not distrub yourself . First you should devote your valuabe a little time for care of your parents and balance time for your study and spent one hour for morning walk , yoga & mediaton etc in morning .
I will suggest you please make a plan for whole day and distribute time for i.e. mediation,study,parents care as you feel convinent and complete your work with sincerty.In case you any clarification feel free write /call me imediately .
God bless you.
2006-06-21 01:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by parmod_khurana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a big problem I know...I just want u to know that many many families has the same problems..70% of the parents fights always together... and all the old parents like ur grandmother has the same ways in dealing with other ppl...just try to act with her normally...of course she feels hurt when she feels that she is not welcomed by you epically u r her granddaughter..try to be patient with her...she is old...
About ur parents..i know its hard..just try to make ur own world far from them and from their problems.....try to be more with ur best friend and ur friends...try to focus more on ur studies and on ur school...make ur won world..when u sit and talk with ur best friend or ur friends...dont talk about ur problem...u talked before and they couldnt find a solution for u..try to find others things to interest you far from ur parents for now...
2006-06-21 01:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by friendly GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
problems are home are common for a lot of families, there really is not much you can do but try and keep it together for as long as it lasts. Don't lose you mind. Call your friend up and open up to her, you really need someone by your side for this.
2006-06-20 23:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I percentage all i will when you consider that life faster or later ends for me and that i pick to percentage what I have perfect (lifestyle, concepts, poems, etc) What i do not pick to percentage genuinely: my husband and my daughter (even if i comprehend it really is particularly no longer accessible rrrrrrssssss) yet mostely i do no longer condsider myself as a egocentric individual, you comprehend???????
2016-10-20 11:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Study hard
2006-06-20 23:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bet you cannot wait to get away from that nut house.
2006-06-20 23:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋