Just wondering how many older women are here trying to conceive. I have just turned 38 and am trying for my first one. Does anyone have any encouraging words to say as all I ever see or hear is "infertile after 35" "less chances after 35" .. those things alone cause me stress and I am sure it is not helping.
2006-06-20 23:44:29 · 9 answers · asked by super_star 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You are not the first,and you wont be the last.Don't let that hinder you.Go for it girl,You can do all things if you believe.See a doctor,they may prescribe an ovulation inducing drug like clomid,or if you prefer you could try female herbs for fertility.Try the following website for herbal drugs that promote fertility.
http://babyzone.com/preconception/herbs/miscarriage.asp
Herbs like Vitex Agnus Castus,Black Cohosh,Dong Quai,Wild Yam Roots,False Unicorn,are good.look for them in the above website or on the net,find out about the primary fertility conditions they treat,it's usage and dosage.
Good luck.
Pray and keep your fingers crossed,something good is about to happen to you.
2006-06-23 09:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by beibe 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your possibilities of changing into pregnant each and each month are truly truly low, i think of someplace between 20-30%. On effortless it takes a pair 6 months to conceive and that they say they do no longer even evaluate a capacity subject till after a year. for sure in case you ask to be regarded at they'll do it, yet at in user-friendly terms 2 months you haven't any longer something to rigidity approximately. basically attempt to apply a internet site like WebMD to chart your fertility or purchase an ovulation prediction kit that may assist you out, yet heavily you're thoroughly wide-spread as a consequence some distance.
2016-10-31 05:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am thirtyeight years old also. I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy this past january 6th. It took me six months to get pregnant. My grandmom lived with us and was very sick and dying. At the time I was very stressed. Everyone told me stress will not help me get pregnant. A month after she passed away I found out I was pregnant. So what I am trying to say is just relax and dont think about it so much and it will happen for you. Women are having babies well into there fourties today. Good luck to you.
2006-06-21 00:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by JAYNE C 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sitting across the room from our "surprise bonus child," born whem his mom was 38 (and nine months almost to the DAY after my 40th birthday; no bonus points for guessing how we celebrated it. :-). He's a great kid, almost ten years old now and an absolute delight. So it is not only possible, it can also be very rewarding.
Best of luck!
2006-06-21 09:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by Scott F 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my mum went 17 years thinking she couldnt have any more children after me, but then she had my sister at age 37 and my brother when she was 38. so just shows not everyone is less fertile after 35. good luck
2006-06-21 00:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
All I know is few of my cousions tried for the babies and got babies immediately (in btw 1 to 9 months of trying ) in thier early 30s and one was 35 (who got preg immediately)
I know one more cousion who was trying for 10 yrs but got preg when she was 33 so as far as i know in 30s u get better chances ;)
I know few more relatives who got thier babies (not the 1st one)in thier late 30s
So don't worry, be relaxed & calmed.
Good luck
2006-06-21 07:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by Meela T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in my 40's and i am trying to have a baby. Very important!! Relax, Relax and pleasant thoughts, stay on the positive. I am trying that. good luck to us both
2006-06-21 02:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Devika B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
had my first at 18 and it took a year - had number 8 at 42 - excercise have fun and after a year then check it out
2006-06-21 00:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by prettymama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I know women have children into their mid 40's. So no hassle just go ahead and pop one.
2006-06-20 23:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it makes much difference to be honest, my mum ahd me when she was 40 or 39 ! go for it, all you can do is try and hope! good luck
2006-06-21 01:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by Cutie_92 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋