Why lesbians become lesbians?

Question

I'm just curios why do they get attracted in their same sex. Why do they get lesbians anyway? Please explain with sense please! tHANK YOU!

Answer 1

They're born that way. People don't become lesbians, they just are.

Answer 2

Oh my. Oh my... We are born of one man and one woman. With in each of us is a man and a woman. There isn't an absolute in either direction. There are only shades of grey.

As children, we are taught that we will go to school, go to college, get a job, buy a car, buy a house, get married, have 2.5 children, raise them and put them through school, grow old, retire, and die.

So often, people that are homosexually oriented, don't find out until they are long into the "social programming". Thus, it appears that one day the individual becomes gay/lesbian. The person didn't become anything. They were that way from the start, but our society doesn't support the concepts in the social programming.

It started in the bible. One should not sleep with one of its own kind... Or, something like that. However, Jesus never said anything in regards to this issue. Paul did... Paul was the only disciple that was also a Roman Citizen. Paul spoke out against the concepts that the Romans had at the time. In the old roman days, men didn't have SEX with women. They only used them for reproduction purposes. They had SEX with each other. Paul spoke out against that. And, rightly so. Women are not to be treated as subservients anymore since Jesus wiped away all sin, even the first one.

But, as for homosexuality... Again, Jesus never said anything in regards to this. God is love... Love can not be denied. What is between two consenting adults should be acceptable as long as the rights of the individual are not taken away.

Cumming feels pretty much the same no matter what gender you are with. Love making is caused by the emotions between the two individuals.

If we are spiritual, and our bodies are just a host, then who we are inside, doesn't necessarily reflect who we are outside. Therefore, we should let ourselves be attracted to what is inside, no matter what the shell says of the outside.

Ask me another time about the peanut principle, or just view it on my 360 page after I write it there. :)

Answer 3

For my own opinion lesbians become lesbians coz they are lesbians.Seriously,a woman become lesbian coz of the influences in her outside world or during her childhood there was a too much exposure with the men and it comes that she likely to become like them.She rather to choose to become one of the men or guys.Maybe she has a great appreciation to the men because of common perception that men are strong and determined.

Answer 4

One answer: I always think of sexuality being like a pole (!). You are very feminine one end of the pole and very masculine the other, but it is possible to be anywhere along the pole.
Another answer: sexuality is socially constructed. Maybe if we weren't raised thinking that male-female is the proper ordering, more of us would be attracted to our own sex. After all, I am heterosexual but also find women sexy and attractive without wanting to have sex with them. Is this because my mind had been programmed that way, who knows?

Answer 5

There are two inconveniences to your test-tube theory: 1. The gay women who don't subscribe to feminism. 2. The feminists who are not gay. A loose addition would be the fact that only 5-10% of any population is homosexual and feminism being a chosen state is much higher. This sort of collapses any necessary causal relationship between the two.

Answer 6

I believe it is instinctive animal attraction based on a personal preference... One persons preference is another mans perversion... That person who sees it as a perversion has a closed mind caused by social and religious influences and 'Prefers' to conform to them instead of being an individual.
This particular lifestyle being BD/SM is based on the tolerance and respect for peoples preferences... Maybe the world can learn something from this diverse group of people... Maybe we need to start a religion?... Not !

Answer 7

It is what it is. We're always looking for explanations to the why's, like death, life, and also homosexuality. I'm a lesbian because simply I just am. And I love every second of being one too.

Answer 8

I think it's where there have been Woman dominated Families where Fathers do as their told and where women grow up in Girls only boarding schools. Then they start tp play and discover each other at night and day.

Answer 9

FIrst they step out of the closet. Voila! Instant lesbian. They're attacted to women because they like women. Oh, yeah, and they're not attracted to men at all. If they are, they're considered to be bisexual.

Answer 10

I am not sure but I love them all the same !!!

In fact I would love to be the meat in a lesbian sandwich

Answer 11

Because there are guys out here in who can't lay great pipe or do anything else right to satisfy a women's sexual needs!!!!1 dats a man good to do everything right so dat women won't try some one else or a women.... so she may try a women who's performance in the bed it much better then dat guy... and she falls in love with it.....................