I have been with this guy for almost 10 months and the last four times we have had sex he cumed in me, I think I might be pregnanat but I'm only 16, i am not really ready yet plus my mom would be dissapointed in me if I was she would also kick me out. PLus my boyfriend cumed in me two months before but I wasnt pregnant luckily but he said he did it cuz he wants to be with me for a long time. What should I do if I am??
2006-06-20 23:02:41 · 18 answers · asked by Lilmamasita 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It sounds like your B/F needs to be put in check. If he thinks by getting you pregnant is the best way in keeping you, then he has some major issues. You are too young to have a baby, and I can tell you that its hard. I have a 9 month baby, and its hard. You no longer have the chance of enjoying your free time..going out, being with freinds, doing things alone. I think you should re-think about your boyfriend and think about the long run. Good luck
2006-06-20 23:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is go get on some birth control! you will never regret the decision to NOT be a teen mother! you should consider yourself very lucky that you have not already gotten pregnant. it's only a matter of time if you're having unprotected sex. if you are pregnant, talk to your mom. even though she will disappointed she still loves you and will be able to help you make good decisions. AND, if your boyfriend really cares about you and wants to be with you for a long time then he would be doing what he needs to be doing to give you the best life possible-like encouraging you to do well in school and go to college, not trying to get you pregnant. Don't let him manipulate your feelings. take care of yourself and if your relationship lasts then you can bring a child into this world (when you're older and wiser) the right way-with two loving parents (preferrably married) who have insurance.
2006-06-21 06:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by weberqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a precious treasure and IF you are pregnant, there are people who will love you and help you through. Crisis Pregnancy Center is a very good resource. Churches and other places like Mercy Ministries, Joy Ministries etc...
The best thing you can do is get a revelation of how much you are loved by your father God and realize you can trust Him to help you .He will give you what you need, If you are not pregnant this time, get help anyway, Stop having sex.Your boyfriend is immature, selfish, and he needs to grow up and value you. You can get pregnant without the full meal deal anyway... Your life is a gift and God has a beautiful plan for you and your future children, if you are willing to trust Him. Abortion is the biggest mistake you could ever make , ripping away from you the most wonderful gift you can imagine, and you would regret it for all of eternity. I know this to be true. There is help for you. I will be praying for you.
2006-06-21 06:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by MPS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young., you should be the one protecting yourself, screw what he says, do not be stupid, if you are not married to this man, well, why would you become another baby's mama, also, there is nothing that you have to offer to a child, I mean, you do not have an education nor are you ready financially, nor is this little boy.. so basically, you would be a baby carrier because you have to depend on others to support YOUR child.. That is not smart., if you get pregnant, you will be the one having to deal with most of the issues, not him.. He will probably stay with his parents, while you take a chance of being thrown out and what is he going to do for you?? He cannot even take care of himself! Why would you put yourself in that situation? You do not sound to be too bright. . .
2006-06-21 06:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have think about the result of ur own action before doing it.u are still young and u have a life stretched ahead of u.do u want to ruin ur future by doing something such as having sex with someone u just been for 10 months?and do u actually believe that he wants to be with u for a long time or he did it with u because he is a guy and the the temptation is too great for him?plus think about the child if u are really pregnant.what will be it;s future?adopted by other parents?feel unwanted when it grows up?please..dont do that again.if he insists on doing it again u have to learn to act smart and think first before u act
2006-06-21 06:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by saru_lp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it again! You don't want to bring a poor unwanted child into this cold uncaring world you want to be prepared when you do have a child Think of how you would like be better equipped to look aftter a child prepare it is not a toy having a child is a big responsibility that lasts for at least 20 years or so having a child is not to be taken lightly! but if you are then think of the life you have inside you and try to prepare as best you canand you will have to tell your mum you will not be able to hide it for long.
2006-06-21 06:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by I speak Truth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets try this- If you're lucky and you're not pregnant, lie to your boyfriend that you are and see his reaction, then you would know what it would've really been like if you really were pregnant. And please, if any guy wants to be with you forever, he'll marry you right now.
My mum says the only reason you should have sex is if you're planning on raising children and getting married. Might sound like old people's talk but trust me it makes a whole lot of sense. have you even thought of the possiblity of contracting sexually transmitted diseases?
If you're pregnant though, don't increase your sins by abortion. You'll have to tell your mum and accept whatever outbursts she has. Goodluck to you..........
2006-06-27 20:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your pregnant it's not the end of the world. First go get tested, then
talk to you mom. I'm sure she'll be an adult about it once she sees that your regretful and scared. But, girl, seriously, be more responsible! Take care of yourself. Your too you to even be having sex, much less taking care of a baby. just be careful from now on, okay?
2006-06-21 06:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by alyssabeth2304 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be pregnant, then why aren't you using protection? As for what he said about being with you for a long time, that's just another male excuse for getting you to have sex. Be responsible and start doing what's right.
2006-06-21 06:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, your too young to be having sex let alone unprotected sex. If he really cares about you, he would take precautions as well as you doing the same. Babies arent a joke. Get on some birth control and talk to your mom open and honest about your sexual activity.
2006-06-21 06:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by mindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋