I need advice, me and my fiance have been living together now for about 4 months. We don't have a wedding date yet, but everytime I think about getting married I get scared and nervous and I start to think that I don't want to get married. I love him very much, I just don't want to be confused.
Do you think I will get over it?
2006-06-20 22:22:58 · 11 answers · asked by jjdd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think you can really see what you want if you go away for a week for example and see if you miss your fiance or the life with him then you`re gonna understand if you want to marry him or not.
2006-06-20 22:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by kejsi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lil lady get used to it lol cuz LOVE is very confusing sometimes or i think so anyway .. I mean when in love you feel all kinds of mixed emotions .. you always gotta work at it.. remember everyone makes mistakes ..try to be understanding and not controlling .. maybe you needa ask yourself if your really ready for this kind of comittment with him ? Just take each day as it comes and follow your heart ..you'll be alright ..everyone goes thru there own obstacles in marriage some bigger then others but I promise you it will just bring you closer as a couple . goods luck to yah girl ..dont worry to much maybe alotta women feel that way b4 marriage ? I didnt cuz thats all i ever wanted but hey diff strokes for diff folks lol ~take care~
2006-06-20 22:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though you have been living together for 4 months, a lot of other factors come into play. r u both mature enough 4 a lifetime together? finances? talk to a marriage counselor or church official like a priest, pastor, et c. they usually require that before you get married. that is if you get married in a church rather than by a judge.
2006-06-20 22:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by johnny_on_the_spot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your unsure! Maybe you need to take some time to think about it before making a big commitment. Make sure you are doing the right thing! Do you really love him? You need to ask yourself some questions. Listen to what your heart is telling you! When i was engaged...i knew it was right. So think about this. Its very important. Congrats and good luck!
2006-06-20 22:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you should be asking this to yourself rather than putting it openly.
I guess u r confused coz u r living together... try living separate and i am sure u will get the answer
2006-06-20 22:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea. u r jus panic ing. jus relax. hve a gud talk wid ur fiance. he can help u gt ovr ur fears and insecurities . chill . everythng will be all right. im sure u will overcome ur nervousness nd gt married soon . so,congrats in advance sweetie.
2006-06-20 22:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
evry girl gets nervous b wedding so dnt worry it happens wid evry1
2006-06-20 22:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by dincpurple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage, needs a piece of paper, why u afraid of that?
2006-06-20 22:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mono 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not while your living with him; maybe if you have seperate places you can go to while being married.
2006-06-20 22:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by MOGLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit down with him and tell him what u just told us and let him support u.
2006-06-20 22:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by Factor X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋