I always think people are not going to want to talk to me or think thay are better than me and therefore I am not worthy of their conversation. But as i mature I am thinking most people are nice and would not base talking to me on wether they thought they were better than me in anyway. So i want to know if you think you are generally nice and would talk to anyone, wether you thought you are better than them?
2006-06-20 22:02:33 · 32 answers · asked by ripple 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I am one of the nicest people I know, however, someone who judges people as to who is better than who I would not talk too...being nice DOES NOT MEAN you have to talk to everyone.
2006-06-27 04:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mind your own business !!
I'll bet that shook you up a bit didn't it??
I would say I am not a 'nice' person, I know a lot of 'nice' people and they all seem to be taken advantage of, and serves them right.
Actually you are really not worthy to receive these words of wisdom from me, because I am better than you,but whatever!!
You are sadly lacking in both self confidence and self esteem, I have an abundance of both and I really do wish that I could share it with you, however that's not possible, so you will have to build up your own, I don't know how but at least look into it!!
I used to have an 'inferiority' complex ,( I thought every one was inferior to me ) but I know now that I was right, they are !!
I think all you need is a bit of a (gentle) kick in the bum area to get yourself some self confidence!!
Or a couple of kicks so you can join us nasty's!!
No one on this earth is better than you !! Just keep telling yourself that and above all Believe it, you Dumbo!!
2006-06-20 22:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by budding author 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 'nice' but I dont think that is such a good thing anymore.
Nice people dont get the job, cocky arrogant people do.
Nice people arent necessarily all that popular, its the arrogant 'cool' ones that are
I am not bothered about being liked particularly, I do have some brilliant friends and family and thats enough for me.
I do and would talk to anyone without thinking that I am better than they are, sometimes not first thing in the morning though as I'm not a morning person. I still wouldn't feel like I was better. Just pining for my bed.
2006-06-20 22:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agreed. Not everyone is nice. I don't think I'm better than anyone and I don't think anyone is better than me. This has landed me in "hot water" more than once because I don't treat a C.E.O. with any more respect than I treat a receptionist or janitor. I've noticed the people who have the ego problems are the ones who are offended by this unbiased treatment. Oh well.
I was so shy in elementary schools my teachers asked my parents if I was mute. ;-) I'm still not the "life of the party" but I am not afraid anymore of what anyone else will think. Give yourself time. I wish you all the best.
2006-06-20 22:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to be nice, and i dont think i am better than anyone, we all start from different places and some have more of an advantage, doesn't make them better, just makes them lucky. i talk to anyone, the old lady on the bus, the man selling big issue, the snotty receptionist that pretends to be busy. people are very rarely rude to your face, if you talk to them, they kinda have to talk back or will appear rude, if they do act rudely, you then look at them with a 'at least i have good manners' stare.
I actually go out of my way to talk to people who think they are better than me, as i dont really have a lot to lose, they cant think any worse of me and i may be able to prove them wrong and dispel some of their ignorance.
As long as you speak to people with a smile on your face and a friendly manner, you can walk away either having a good conversation or knowing you are the bigger person.
2006-06-21 01:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by softly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never think of myself as better than anyone else and I do generally consider myself nice. I usually feel more like you do that others think they are better than me or wouldn't bother striking up a conversation with the likes of me, but I find that people in general are nice and will talk to me. So it is only in those instances when I don't feel like people are nice that I begin to think those negative things.
2006-06-20 22:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should I think that i am better than someone...that will be superiority complex..each person has his own individuality and are good in someway or other....but there will be people who think they are better than us (I always wonder in what way!!!)..when i come across such people I just back off and not try to talk further..but not to forget they will have their own dark sides also..I don't talk to strangers normally...If they talk to me I will be very distant and to the point (this has been told to me by people whom I meet for the first time)but not that I am rude to them..and only when i have judged them as reliable and honest only then I make a move for friendship or the distance will continue..
2006-06-20 22:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by Deep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one is better than anyone. I think i am nice, i will talk to anyone i dont know, i enjoy meeting new people and learning about people. I will then form my own opinion based upon how well i get on with that person, i would never decide i didn't want to talk to someone before giving them a chance.
2006-06-20 22:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Emmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that I am better than anyone else, or that anyone else is better than me. Some people are just not nice (for example the woman behind me in her Audi who beeped and gestured at me this morning when I stopped in the road to turn right - with my indicator on and correctly positioned in the road!) Seems like some people are selfish rather than anything else. Just ignore them and concentrate on the majority who are deep down good.
2006-06-20 22:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by Roxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are fair, honest, and yourself, then you will be nice. I try to be nice and talk to everyone, but sadly I do have times when I think someone isn't worth my time because I percive them to be stupid or have moral/ethical views that I think are lower in standards to my own.
It's a very bad thing to think, but sadly I think sometimes it is human nature.
However, I always will make an effort with everyone I meet. After all, I'd want them to do the same to me!
2006-06-21 02:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by Five- Farthings 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am I nice?
Depends on who you ask, some people seem to think I'm a psychotic maniac, other people accept [and deal with] the fact that I have 2 mental health "issues"
The former like to wind me up to see what sparks will fly and can rot in hell for all I care...
The others leave me be and we get on fine ...
2006-06-20 22:18:54 · answer #11 · answered by Lobelia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋