what you will do, if you want to forget some one.............she asked u......not to contact her any more...............not to mail her.......not to text her..............and not to contact at all...............but if you still love her...........what you will do?
2006-06-20 21:48:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She may have her own reasons, so don't try to do anything stupid. If you really love her, you'll let her go.
Try to forget her. Not easy at all, but necessary.
Don't brood over what happened and how it could have been corrected.
Start your life anew. Hang out with friends, away from her memories.
Do things that will involve you mentally and physically, so that she doesn't come into your mind. Even if she does, throw her out.
Get a life, man. She isn't the only one out there.
Yeah, forgetting someone you love is very difficult, an uphill task, but it's not impossible. It'll take time. It may take more than a year even, but don't falter.
People have let go of their loved ones in the past, you won't be the only one. I let go of my crush. You can let go too. I know love is different from having a crush on someone, but it'll just take more time and much more effort.
Don't try to think of the past. One day, you'll be very happy without her. Be optimistic.
Good Luck!!!
2006-06-21 00:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ann 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I told an ex not to contact me anymore and to be honest I'm pretty p*ssed he doesn't! (I was angry at the time when I said it and now I can't take it back!).
I don't have any feelings for him or anything but it's sad that we can't be friends or anything ...
I think you should try to contact her just ONCE and see how she responds, if it's negative, don't do it again.
Good luck.x.
2006-06-21 16:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by LONDONER © 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is an psychological tedency of human being that whatever is forced to it will always be opposite. If you are forced to forget you will every time remember her. So try to remember her each and every time to forget her. Stick her pictures at your almirah and write her name at places. One day you will automatically forget her. Really.
2006-06-21 04:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You just hurt yourself more by trying to get back something that is no longer there. Learn from your mistakes and make better choices next time. It does get better just give it time! Keep your head up!
2006-06-21 04:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about it,she doesnt even care or even love u anymore,she basically wants u to be out of her life.so whats the point? just move on..
2006-06-21 07:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE STRONG. Leave her alone. I know its easier said that done but although you dont realize it right now it is the best thing to do.
You just need to give it time. Meawhile keep yourself busy with other things that dont remind you of her.
2006-06-21 04:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by Rainbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id still think of that person obvious but i would not contact her.I think that maybe shes just fed up.Mayb if u dun contact her she might contact u soon
2006-06-21 05:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by pop_princess0520 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is just one and only one way ; find someone whom u can love more than u love urself
remember love is a part of life its not the heart of life
2006-06-21 04:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on, it is hard but she has made it clear how she feels, you can't force someone to love you.
Unrequited love is a pain, but what doesn't kill us makes us stronger!
2006-06-21 05:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
email one time, tell her that you are there if she wants to talk. then leave it alone. she will either delete the email, or she won't. my advice, move on. there will be the right one for you out there that will love you back.
2006-06-21 05:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋