my aunt has asked my mom to move me and my brother to california i have wanted to move there since i was younge but i'm currently in a long term reletionship(just over a year) my boyfriend has told me he would move with me but i know he has always wanted to settle down in the town he was raised in he is very close to his family should i even be thinking about asking him to leave his family so i can be close to mine see my dad also lives in cali. i dont know my dad or the sisters i have on his side i'm torn what should i do
2006-06-20 21:36:45 · 8 answers · asked by Ralina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are in the stage of life where you are faced with many crossroads. Everythings seems to be decisions...decisions and more decisions.
Right now, it is up to you to choose. I am sure both your ties with your family and your boyfriend are really close. But choose - Which of the two below makes you happier?
- Pursue your childhood dream and go to california with your family. You can start everything afresh there and who knows, meet another guy who will make you happy. Who knows, you'll have a great life there!
- Stay and be together with you boyfriend. You can always send letters or emails to your family or maybe your boyfriend can take you on roadtrips and drop you at your family's for awhile. You love your boyfriend very much and nothing can tear you away from him.
No one is to give you any answers. Answers are to come from your heart. So choose, my dear. I have faith in you that you'll make the right choice.
But one thing, if you are to stay, where do you live? Any plans? =)
2006-06-20 21:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by Matthew T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your worry is quite normal, being torn between what you want and what you love is always difficult to handle. However, your happiness is the ultimate. Consider what is awaiting you out there in terms of new opportunities and consider the new discovery you are likely going to make while there with your family. If your bf loves you he will love your happiness as well.
2006-06-20 21:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sage_Learner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cali the land of opportunities. Give it a try. You will either love it or hate it. I'm thinking the former. Give it a try.
2006-06-20 21:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what is your heart telling you ? do you love this guy and are ya'll planning to marry some day ?? how deep is the relationship ?? is it possible for you to go for while out there and to meet your family and then return ?? there are options... God bless
2006-06-20 21:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is best for you, your boyfriend would move with you anyway so what's the problem?
2006-06-20 21:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by Da Great 1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever works best for you
2006-06-20 21:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your bf make his own decision and support whatever it is.
2006-06-20 21:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u decide ..dont ask me..plsss
2006-06-20 21:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by Raju.K.M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋