i saw a girl in my college i liked her and i starded following her till she noticed..she looked back at me we were not introduced.we were always looking into each others eyes for 5 monthes.my herat was burning for her and i was ready to die for her.someone introduced us together i greeted her for ten days .she always seemed to be happy to see me.i could not keep it in my chest anymore..i told her that i love her..she simply said "i am sorry".
i did not believe my rears.I got hurt..and i am still hurting.
what you think about me,about her,to what time my sorro will last and what i am supposed to do?
2006-06-20 20:46:40 · 36 answers · asked by golden-heart 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I am think DAT that girl is a skanky *****, and you should forget bout' her.You deserve so much better. Like someone who would never turn you down. Trust me you don't need her. Soon you will find the love of your life, and you will be saying in your head "why did i care and hurt for so long, for that *****, i met in collage." Trust me you'll have a better person, who you will never want to let her go, and she will feel the same way.
2006-07-04 17:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by ayo_lets_dancex3 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Whenever we like somebody that much--- we are somehow led to believe that this person likes us in return. Her behavior might have been misinterpreted primarily because feelings are not so objective in looking at reality. The intensity of expectations will lead to a similar intensity of frustration and disappointment.
If you think this is bad you will feel badly about it. Try to get some insight and accept the feelings you have right now. Not to get answers immediately but to discover that you are and will always be a wonderful person --- with or without the girl.
2006-07-02 17:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by Edgar V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole time she probably just thought you were some creepy stalker. Besides, women hate it when guys who don't even know them say "I love you". All you ever did was stare at her and exchange pleasantries about the weather and you were ready to tell her you love her?? What's wrong with you? It may seem sweet, but it's really just scary. Hopefully you'll learn a lesson from this. You have to get to know a person on the inside....they're not going to be impressed that you were so smitten by the superficial that you thought you were in love with them. Women are deeper than that.
2006-06-20 20:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Give the man some room and dont judge. Now, you really "were attracted to her". Maybe it was just a "crush", or maybe you did love her. But you are not looking at the point of the thing. If you look in the positive side of it, then you'll see that it's just another lesson of life. You have to get over this and move on with your life. It's going to be tough, but i am sure you can do it.
Good luck man
2006-06-21 02:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by therifleman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, get over it. Life goes on. You seem like a sweet guy, but never go off looks, mainly. Looks can be deceiving! You should of goten to know her first then developed a relationship, and mabey when the time was right, you could of told her. Now you know next time, wait and let fait take is course. Don't worry someone is is out there for you.
2006-06-21 04:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by pinkcheer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dear.
firstly, there are many problems with you:
1.you don't know the meaning of love:what you did was sensuality not love.
2.following a girl like a pet conveys that you have the characteristics of a hungry animal.(do you yourself like to fall in love with a whimsical dog?)
3.you should learn how to communicate with others through words but not body language.
secondly, there are some problems with life:
1.unfortunately realistic world is a field of defeat.
2.no pain no gain.
3.life sometimes makes us to mix up intention to fall in love and to make love.
4.who doesn't think realistically will perish.
2006-06-20 23:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Loiterer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, its not the end of the world. What you have is a crush. If I understand, you've only meet her a few times. You didn't bother to walk to her and introduce yourself to her. Thats probably why she isn't interestied in you. But hey, if she isn't taken, you can still try to show her how you feel. Don't stalk her, that dosen't help. If she gets pissed off, your doing something wrong and back off for a while. Good luck.
2006-07-04 15:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was puppy love. You told her you loved her too soon. Love has to grow. Although there is such a thing as love at first sight. Love has to be mutual. You should have given time to see if her feelings were returned. Don't be hurt. You know now that things can change. Be friends with her. Your hurt will go away. You will be friends that could grow closer.
2006-07-01 05:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by sally_little03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't even know her so how could you love her. Following her sounds like you were stalking her and no one wants that. How would you feel if it was the other way around and some stranger came up to you and said they loved you? I myself would be kind of afraid and steer clear of that person. Get to know some one before you make a statement like that.
2006-07-04 16:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by # one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell her you like her?then if so
There's your fire work'sfor eachother
so talk to her and tell her how you really
Truely feel about her.and find out where
You both fit in eachother's life,
Here's my love story i found my high school
Man and he is the best thing that has ever happend to me
he even want's to buy me a house and buy me my 1st car
etc.so go with your heart and by all means keep on going
with the love you both feel for eachother.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-03 09:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋