This girl met me 6 months back in a marriage i gave her my cell no. then we chat on phone for quite few weeks and then we decided to meet. on our first date we sat talking for 1 hr. i told her not to get involved in me and i will not marry her we will just keep it as a casual relationship and she agreed to tht,. and she even said tht even she will not like to marry. then we had sex on the same day. later we had sex many times. now suddenly she is getting serious. and she is ready to do anything to marry me. She says tht she will die without me and she cant live without me. She has even told everything to her family and even to my cousin sister without telling me. Once when i told her tht i will not marry her she went to home and then i got a call from another girl saying she got unconcious and was admitted to the hospital and all tht.
I really dont want to marry this girl kindly help me out of this give me some ideas i can i get rid of this girl without making her suicide. PLZ HELP.
2006-06-20 20:25:08 · 17 answers · asked by milind z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Run. Don't look back, don't ask questions, just run. If she's this bad now, how bad will she get in the future? RUN!
2006-06-20 20:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by Valag 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely inform her family about the situation. From the sound of it she probably didn't actually end up unconcious in the hospital but was actually making her friend call you to tell you that she had. You did sort of get yourself into it by attempting to have casual sex with someone you didn't know, but people like her are terrified of abandonment and can become obsessive. She might even stalk you which would be basis for legal action. Either that or you might just have to keep rejecting her and eventually she'll forget and leave you alone. Do not have contact with her. Especially not relationship type contact such as sex or dates.
But first and foremost find someone of importance in her life to tell about the situation. If she's a danger to herself her loved ones need to know.
2006-06-20 20:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by Emily O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't want to marry the girl then don't do it. You need to get a way from this woman because she sounds mental. Tell her friend or tell her family that she's suicidal and tell them they need to keep an eye on her and then run away.
2006-06-20 21:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please talk to her family and friends. Maybe one of them will help her understand. She also needs to seek a therapist. Good luck. I hope she doesn't live close by because she may become a serious problem. You might have to move and change email address and phone number. This doesn't sound like it's going to go away quietly.
To the people who suggesed that she kill herself -- you should be ashamed of yourselves!! I hope you never get that scared or desperate or depressed.
2006-06-27 20:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a classic....yup- you haven't watched that movie with that Douglas guy? You got yourself a problem here. I just hope she doesn't start hurting your family...that's what you have to worry most right now- you cheater! Seems a bit drastic, but best would be to move away with your family for their safety and to put a stop to that madness....it will only get worst from here. What are you waiting for? Save your family!!!!
2006-06-20 21:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D she really enter hospital? what if the hospital stuff is fake? and for her to actually use her life to get u marry her is already wrong! u should reason with her. although u are in wrong too, i think. since if u don't want a relationship y sex w her?
2006-06-20 20:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by tsuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really wanted to commit suicide, she wouldn't need you as her excuse... she would do it whether you married her, or not. Sounds like she's laying a guilt-trip on you... making you feel bad just to get you to do whatever she wants you to do.
2006-06-20 20:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her manipulate you. You can't be forced to marry her just stay away from her......
And possibly get a restraining order put on her she sounds nuts and you know what they say about a women scorned...
2006-06-20 20:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are u not getting married with this girl r u involved with someone else .if yes then let her suicide!
2006-06-20 20:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her marry you. It will be killing two biords with one stone; her wish would come true and marrying you would be her suicide anyway:)-
2006-06-20 20:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by sexspiritual 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋