i have a friend that has been my friend for 4 years but i have had to put up with her insulting me and disrespecting my mother she is always hitting on all my cousins and once she goes out with one and they break up she goes straight to another. she is also very controling. i feel wrong to think about breaking our friendship cause it has been a long friendship but what do you think.....oh and she told me she has decided to be bisexual and it kind of freaks me out
2006-06-20 19:49:19 · 9 answers · asked by Jace D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Even if she didn't say a thing to you, disrespecting your mother, is disrepecting you. If she is your friend, I hate to see your enemies. And if you are allowing it, then you don't think much of your self. My daughter wouldn't let anyone say a thing about me. She would beat the s**t out of them right there and then.
You either have to talk to this girl, or drop her like a hot potatoe. But if she is also a vindictive person, becareful how you do it.
Family is everything, and friends come and go. And if she is doing this to your whole family, it sounds like she is no good. Not a very nice person at all.
A true friend will yell at you , and you yell at her. Cry with you, and be there through thick and thin. they are to cover your back, be there when you need them. Not use you or your family for there own mean spitefullness. There must be something wrong with her. She must feel ugly on the inside, to do something like this to you and your family. What does your mother say to all this. Does she know what your friend is saying, or is the girl only saying it to you, and will anyone believe you when it is brought uup. Is she a sneaky person. Because if she is, she is someone you shouldn't be hanging out with. Don't stoop to her level. Be better then her, and finially say something to her and not let her do these things to your family
Good luck with this, and I hope it works out for you. Because you really have to do something NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-20 20:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Goose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
end the friendship. she is not your friend if she insults you and your mother. the cousin thing, she could just be doing for attention. I would end it before it gets worse. trust me, it gets a lot worse the older they get.
2006-06-20 19:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by kantriella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might as well end this frenship! long friendship so..... u think because of long friendship so don't want to end like this but y don't she think that since u and her have long friendship she should at least give some respect to u and yr close one!
2006-06-20 20:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by tsuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she hits on ur cousins, dates and breaks up with them, INSULTS U and disrespects ur mother??
BISeXUAL?????
ok, i dont think you should feeel wrong AT ALL
i think its best for this friendship to end
do it nicely though, she could really hurt u if you do it meanly!
2006-06-20 19:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by uhhhhhhhh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is like my cousin she will brack up and 5min later she is going out with somoneelse my advice stay away you may have been friends for along time but people change. bisexual gross RUN
2006-06-20 20:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by morgan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop then
but the fact that she decided to be "bi" is none of ur business.
but her disrespecting ur family .... she deserves a slap.
2006-06-20 20:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like she has already stopped being your friend.
2006-06-20 19:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by Plain and Simple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! stay away from her! u can still make friends with other people
2006-06-21 00:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you have had enough.
2006-06-20 19:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by LAVELLE! :] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋