If you have read my former question about her, than you would know who I'm talking about. But, in case you haven't, she's this girl that was once my best friend, but then became a backstabber. So i stopped being friends with her. Now her mom is asking me out so that she can tell me how she feels and that she knows her mistake blah blah blah... But i know that she does not change. The exact thing happened two months ago! What should I do?
2006-06-20 19:35:18 · 19 answers · asked by LAVELLE! :] 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Her mom is practically forcing me to go out with her. I hate her so, so much. I seriously don't know what to do, except kill her slowly and painfully. She thinks that everytime she does that I will forgive her, which I have for the whole of last year, which I regret and know that I shouldn't have. I will die. If I do, please send me loads of flowers and stuff. I will tell my parents to request for my username to appear on the tombstone as well.
2006-06-20 19:51:26 · update #1
And I'm a GIRL, not a guy. I'm not an adult either. She's going out with me to Starbucks to have coffee.
2006-06-20 19:53:32 · update #2
if u think that u can stand her,go ahead and take it easy
good luck
2006-06-21 04:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make an appointment to wash your hair! Say you're waiting for an important long distance call. Rub onions all over yourself so you smell really bad.
You need to cut this off. If you go along now, you'll get strung into it all over again. It doesn't matter whether she's changed...you have a right not to be around her.
2006-06-21 02:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by Plain and Simple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humor her. Then tell her sorry I have moved on. I am over you . You will have to find your self another guy. I am sorry if this up set you . I just can't hide how I feel. If I were to date you It would be a lie to me and to you. I don't want to hurt you any more. That should do it. If not i am sorry I tried. Good luck!
2006-06-21 02:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a predicament your in, i would that if she backstabbed you before, she could very well do it again easily. If you choose to go ahead with this date, proceed with caution. She could be wanting to be your friend, but what's to say what will happen in a couple months. Maybe she'll get bored and just backstab you again. Goodluck with your decision.
2006-06-21 02:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are sure that one of these days she will mature and you will wish that you would have given her another chance but for now you know that she has yet to change and you can not take that chance.
2006-06-21 02:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by blue_dragoness5695 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can a girl you dislike be going with you? Better you decide my dear, whether she remains in your disliking category. If so, you will not be going with her. Can you not intimate her mom of your view? Be sincere to you, before acting anything.
2006-06-21 02:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to go if you don't want to. One thing you should do is forgive her. Everyone deserves forgiveness - it's good for you and for her. Forgiving her doesn't mean that you need to be friends with her or go out with her.
2006-06-21 02:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that she won't change, don't try to change her. Dun waste ur time. Continue your life. She will understand one day what she has done wrong. For the time being let her be!
2006-06-21 02:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by nsms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen and tell her you'll need time to get over the hurt of her deception
2006-06-21 02:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by Magi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great idea to talk about it! try it first then you will know, id she really cant change so you dont need to do that anymore!
i once had a problem like you have, just try it first, okay!!!
good luck!
2006-06-21 02:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by bonita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has her Mom calling you? Just dump her. Don't be a wimp and stand your ground, keep the date but don't show up.
2006-06-21 02:46:31 · answer #11 · answered by Zacko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋