2006-06-20 19:11:59 · 24 answers · asked by M... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes it does...and sometimes it doesn't.
Cheating on someone you love however is an indication that your relationship has unresolved problems, sometimes they are problems neither party realizes are there.
In the real world, where the grown-ups live, people cheat for all sorts of reasons, nothing in this world is 100% black and white. Some cheat for the thrill of it, others cheat because they have real feelings for the person they cheat with, sometimes it's a combination of the two. Sometimes it's because they've fallen out of love with their partner but have convinced themselves to stay in the relationship because it's become comfortable.
If you have cheated on someone that you think you love, you really have to look at the reason why. There is a HUGE difference between a one-night-fling and an affair. The one night stand is one mistake, the affair means there are definite problems within the relationship itself. Usually the person your cheating with has qualities that the current partner lacks. You really need to gauge each circumstance on it's own.
Just remember that no one is perfect. Life isn't this neat little package, sometimes things happen. It is the drama in life that makes us stronger.
Best wishes to you :-)
2006-06-20 19:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sith Puppy 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
The " moment " only reveals what was going on inside your mind and usually what was going on in the relationship. The " moment " didn't just happen, it had to have started as a pattern of thinking that was going on for a while, and there's always a reason. Basically, cheating is people running away from a present problem they are having in the present relationship. The experience never really solved or cured anything, because you took the problem with you when you jumped the fence, if not you just made a situation all the more " worse off."
The question remaining is, do you love your partner? Can you live without him?
Love is unconditional, it has no limits. Is your partner considerate , kind, giving. The answer your looking for is in your own heart and that's where you'll know.
2006-06-21 02:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nall not really the case. with women who cheat they are usually missing something besides sex in the relationship, or theyre bf are assholes and dont show them attention, so it is so easy for another man to take her away from you. same thing for men, if youre not doing something that he need then he's gonna get it else where. things like attention, support, communication is a must. most people who cheat for these reason really love the person. my ex-gf cheated on me. she was young and immature and need someone to show her some attention, and talk to her. men are a different story. they cheat because seeing new pussy is a big turn on to men. if you loves you new pussy wont matter, because he's to inlove with the old
2006-06-21 02:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by beerdrinker3423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only that you are horny. OK. uncertain, falling for someone else,problems at home..." If you don't get what you need at home, sooner or later, you have to find it somewhere else." Understanding, attention,love etc etc.Talk about your needs, before doing this! It mostly break up everything you have,are, together.Wake up and smell the coffee. Fight FOR love, not against.
2006-06-21 02:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Le Chef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all. SOmetimes yoru cheat cause you love them to much.
I dated this boy who i was in love with and i though he just didn't care about me anymore and i was hanging out with another boy and we did some things but after i have never felt worse and i just realized how much i loved my now ex-boyfriend (not because of cheating things just didn't work out).
2006-06-21 02:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by Coxie Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. If i cheated on my boyfriend, i would break up with him because it's not fair to him but i would not tell him i am breaking up with him because i cheated on him, I'd tell him its because i realize that i did not love him anymore. Trust me, if you tell him the truth, it would hurt more and he would never get over it and it would haunt you both forever. But that's my advice, you do what you think feels right.
2006-06-21 02:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by Still Halloween 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...if you truly loved someone you wouldn't want anyone else...so pretty much you don't love them if you cheat on them
2006-06-21 02:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by Bitch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you haven't got any respect or love for yourself or the one your cheating on. If you want out , do it . Don't humiliate your partner.
2006-06-21 02:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesssss
2006-06-21 02:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means you don't respect yourself,,, you don't respect the other person and you don't know the meaning of love, you know only how to satisfy yourself....
why did they call it <
do you think cheating is a good aspect ?
2006-06-22 00:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋