today is my bithday and i have this boufriend i have been with for a year and a half. i have a 2 yr old,6 yr old, and a 4 mmonth old that is our child together. i have recently been diagnosed with bipolar and am on lithium,xanax,and effexor and i am oretty messed up in the head. he isnt very supportive. he lays in bed until 5 pm everyday, makes fun of me for having panic attacks and today i fell asleep in my 2 yr olds bed with her and he came in the room and chucked a bottle at my stomach,grabbed me by my hair and yabked me off the bed,,oicked me back up and threw me on the bed and put his hands on my throat, all of this took place in front of my 2 year old.its my birthday today and 3 days ago i watched my grandmother get lowered into a ground. i know ur gng to say why do u out up with this and i am saying that i just started my medication for anxiety and mania and bipolar and i am so scared i am gng to go insane if i am by myself. i know when the meds kick in i am gng to kick him out.
2006-06-20 18:58:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
happy birthday!
but girl, that is horrible! he is abusing you, and will eventually (if it hasn't already) start to abuse your innocent children as well. That is so sad that you just attended a funeral & 4 months ago- gave birth.
Girl, you do not need this, you should find a supportive relative or friend that you can stay with that would treat you better. He is a complete jack@ss! You deserve better - totally!
I know he will always be there, because he is the father of your child, but you do not need the kind of crap he gives you. Next time you go to your baby's dr. check up, you need to tell them. You will feel so much better & it will be starting a totally better pathway for yourself & your children.
Good luck! Be strong!
2006-06-20 19:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by natalie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happy Bday to you. You should not be there get out wile you still can it is not a happy place for you or the kids. As for the the living arrangements talk to a close friend or relitave and he beats down on you talk to your nextdoor neabours and sort something out when he dose it again get them ot call the police you and your kids dont need to be there.
Good Luck and all the best to you and your kids
2006-06-21 02:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Burnforyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I will be sure to put you in my prayers tonight. You shouldn't have to deal with sh*t like this. I'm sorry! Oh I forgot, Happy Birthday! Get some help hon before the Innocent ones get hurt...
2006-06-21 02:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by goodies100 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy b=day, sounds like you know what your gonna do the question is are you gonna do it. no reason anyone has to be treated that way, do you want your 2 year old to be abused and grow up to abuse his children. take action and get a restraining order on his ***. i hope you get better and your life gets straight for your son's sake. sorry about your grandma,may all your dreams come true.
2006-06-21 02:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by necromancer mortaneus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats messed up about your boyfriend...i think you should get rid of him and find you a real man who will apprecate you and give you the respect you deserve...expecally when your going through a tough time like you are with your illnesses.
2006-06-21 02:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAPPY B-DAY,,,,,,,,,sounds like he is a looser . and having him in your life will only make your medical condition worse..
2006-06-21 02:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by purple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops hun!
2006-06-21 02:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by soccersweetie982005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hapi birthday....!!!! c the doctor....
2006-06-21 02:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋