my bestfriends boyfirend tried to kiss me.... should i tell my friend that her boyfirend tried to kiss me?

Question

when he tried to kiss me we were all at my friends house. We were watchin tv. Then my friend went to go check on her baby sister who was crying. When she left her boyfriend touched my leg and he leaned in to kiss me but i turned my head and moved. When she came back we didnt say anything. When her boyfriend ledt later than night i was going to tell her but i got scared and said i had to go. i have not told her yet. I'm scared because i dont want her to freak on me. I need help!

And no i did not kiss him!

Answer 1

yes you should tell her she is your friend

Answer 2

I don't think you need to say a thing being that you are all innocent. It would bring trouble for you and your friend. If this guy tried to kiss you then he will sooner or later get caught. You did the right thing by talking about it to us. Don't lie to her if something should come up later but as for now it's better to keep it to yourself.

Answer 3

Listen, I know what it's like to seriousley need to say something, but chicken out. I'd tell her, because if you don't now she's going to end up with her heart broken anyway. If she doesn't believe you, just be there for her. If she freaks on you, and stops being your friend, just be able to tell yourself that you did the right thing.

Answer 4

Why would she freak on you? you didn't do anything wrong. If I were in your shoes I would tell the boyfriend to NEVER,EVER try that again and leave it at that. You will probably find that your best friend won't want to believe you, maybe even accuse you of starting trouble.

Answer 5

First of all I can understand why you don't want to tell her- you know it's going to hurt her & she may believe him over you if he denies it. But, you have to tell her. You should tell someone ANYTIME ANYONE tries to make unwanted advances to you! If he would try to cheat with his girlfriends best friend, then you know he's gonna cheat anytime he gets a chance. Maybe you should try writing it in a letter. That way you can think out excactly what you want to say without getting freaked out. Hope this helps.

Answer 6

The thing to remember is that you did no wrong and she, as your friend, deserves to know about what this lowlife tries behind her back. You may upset her a bit but how much better for her to learn what he is like now than to get more involved herself before finding out he thinks so little of her.

Answer 7

Yeah Sure, tell your friend, then the boyfriend will be pissed all to hell. Will probably go postal on the two of you, and you'll end up being another statistic. Sad very sad.

OR > > > > >

You can keep it to yourself. maybe he's trying to come on to you because you're really hot. Maybe he's a real good kisser, come on give-em a chance, it may be worth your while.

It's a WIN WIN SITUATION ALL AROUND.

Answer 8

For sure, if you don't tell her then later on down the road he might try to kiss another girl and that girl might try to take it farther and have sex, then what your friend finds out that not only did he try to kiss you but he has now cheated on her...she won't be your friend anymore because you remained silent. She won't be mad at you she will take it out on him...Tell her before it's to late.

Answer 9

For sure, if you don't tell her then later on down the road he might try to kiss another girl and that girl might try to take it farther and have sex, then what your friend finds out that not only did he try to kiss you but he has now cheated on her...she won't be your friend anymore because you remained silent. She won't be mad at you she will take it out on him...Tell her before it's to late.

Answer 10

Yes, you should tell her. She deserves to know what a dog her bf is. There is a chance she might not believe you - be prepared for that. Just tell her the truth and leave it at that - don't try to prove your case. If she decides to believe you then great, if not it's her own loss.

Answer 11

Ok you should tell she but then again you might not there is no right and wrong answer to this ? if you tell her she might not believe you and then you will lose her as a friend but if you tell her you might do her some good.....becuz he might had try that with other gurls cuz like they say if you do it once you are bound to do it again but you have to make that call...you know her the best...you know how she would act....so its all up to you on that one.......i hope you do the right thing...whatever that might be......good luck!!!!!