2006-06-20 18:12:06 · 14 answers · asked by David 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutely. If you made that vow, "Until death do you part." Than keep that vow. The vows you said did not read, "Until you go through your midlife crisis." Nor did it say "Until someone hot, or Twith money pays some attention to you", or does a serious snow job like, " Oh you make me feel like I am 17 again, so free, so alive." The list of B.S. pick up lines is endless. So is Gods capacity to forgive our foolish sins of vanity and lust. If you are a bit bored with your love life, tell your spouse and take off for a romantic getaway, TOGETHER. Work it out because divorce is rarely the right answer. Ask you self, and your kids.
2006-06-20 18:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by stevensings20032001 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's a load of idealistic garbage. Some people make a commitment without completely meaning or having the capacity to honor it or even make the attempt to try. Does that mean that you should live an unhappy and meaningless life based on someone's elses' inability to live up to the commitment that you thought they meant? Definitely not, and for one's own commitment then that is a flaw within themself that they should work on but if it means hurting someone else or causing others grief then, I think that the commitment was broken in the first place and needs to end or change. Nothing is permanent, everything changes and if ur lucky enough to find things in life worth committing to forever then more power to you but don't deny urself a good life just because you or someone else made a promise that you can't keep. Life is too short for that.
2006-06-21 08:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you made a commitment to your bf/gf you should honor it until something happens or if something happens.
When you are married I aggree honor it forever. But somtimes I know things don't work out as planned. But at least try.
2006-06-20 18:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mz.H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so true. My thoughts exactally. Commitment means forever. Forever being honest, forever being faithful and the whole nine yards. You've got a good head on your shoulders I can tell. Stay that way, hun.
2006-06-20 18:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's like committing to smile everyday of your life. It can't be done. There is no committment that can be made and kept "forever" as you say...
life changes, circumstances change and so should (be allowed) people's promises...
2006-06-20 18:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by xxxcariooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true true true...
the thing is some people are weak and dont want to fight for things as much these days (when the marriage/ relationship get tough).
big applause to those in a "tough" marriage who are still fighting for it! keep it up.
2006-06-20 18:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by *Kali* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some say yes but I don't think you should stay in a relationship if you are no longer happy or in love everyone deserves to be happy don't they
2006-06-21 13:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by tarzan's lady again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you comited to marriage then it's until death do you part. unless your a mormon . (then it lasts forever.) if its a comitment lyk "going study" then now way. if you find sumone better then go for it
2006-06-20 18:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by don dada 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ME 2...thaks for saying it...someone really needed to.
2006-06-20 18:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by ~Princess*Bonkers~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should so i suggest people think real hard im in relation ship like that
2006-06-20 18:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋