my husband says he is always tired. but all he does all day is work and come home and sit on his A**. all he does at work is drink. his boss is like his bf. so all thay do all day at work is drink. must be nice. i have to work, come home cook, clean and take care of my 5 year old son. should i be mad or am i just overexaderating?
2006-06-20 17:58:27 · 11 answers · asked by fairyblue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pull the bum up off his lazy a** and make him at least watch the kid or cook a couple meals each wek. I would suggest a strike on your part. Let him deal with the house hold problems one day after work.
2006-06-20 18:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by Draven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel overwhelmed then you need to talk to your hubby. Don't come out him saying he doesn't do anything - he does work to make money for your family. Tell him that you work too and you need some help at home with your child and taking care of the house. Since you both work there is no reason you can't split the chores.
2006-06-20 18:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u spoiled him from the start just sit and talk with him tell him now u r doing alot of work inside and outisde the house so u need his help in a loving way dont be mad all guys are like babies if u wanna take what u want from him just pick the right policy to deal with him and good luck...
2006-06-20 18:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by ghadoud2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to help with the chores.......
Or take your son and do something with him so you can do your housework without having to chase him around also.
If he wants to do neither.........next time he comes home from work, hide the remote, have a pile of laundry for him to fold in his favorite chair and leave the bedding in a pile on the bed (not made) and see if he makes it up!
Be mad? Just get even........ ; P
2006-06-20 18:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your marriage is 50/50 that is his son as well. You need to talk to him about everything sometimes it can help sometimes not specialy if this has been going on for the last five years if so it's not gonna change things will be the same then for that your better off by your self that what it like now
2006-06-20 18:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're in your rights to be mad. No offense, but hubby sounds like a deadbeat.
2006-06-20 18:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by Ari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told you to stay off the computer now go get me a beer and start dinner
2006-06-20 18:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by terribletm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE DOESNT KNOW HIS ROLE IN LIFE.
HE DOESNT KNOW HOW TO SHOW YOU OR TELL YOU HE LOVES YOU.
HE THINKS YOU SHOULD ALREADY KNOW THIS CUZ HE SAID , I DO , ONE TIME.
TRY A MARRIAGE CONFERENCE. THEY ARE GREAT, FUN AND EXCITING! NO ONE ON ONE. JUST AN OPEN PUBLIC AUDITORIOM WITH ALLOT OF MARRIED FOLKS WITH THE SAME PROBLEMS.
2006-06-20 18:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being royally p***ed sound completely warranted!
2006-06-20 18:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by SnapDragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make aragements to share work at home ?
2006-06-20 18:27:15 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋